"Oh this top is such a crybaby and is so submissive he should've been bottom." "Oh this bottom is so badass and cool and always controls the top, he should've been top." "Oh this bottom IS TALLER than the top, he should've been top." ???? You are tasteless. There's this thing called sub and dom. Topping and bottoming isn't a personality trait. Not very woke of you guys?
On a side note, why are people so obsessed with characters switching too? "It's so unrealistic that they don't." not every gay couple in real life switches too?? What happened to preferences and dynamics? Fictional characters can be written with their own preferences too? Oh, buff guy x buff guy = switches? Really feeding into the stereotypes there eh?
/targeted to a lot of people
Ppl who "don't like miscommunication, angst, drama" in their stories are so boring lol you don't want any rising action or climax to the plot? Just begin the story with the side stories then, god.
"Oh they should've just communicated" that's the drama and plot. To flesh out the character, just put them in situations to see how they act. Taking too long? Click off.
miscommunication can be well written and also very poorly written. some miscommunication tropes are horrible to read. you can tell when it’s just the author wanting to drag their story and who doesn’t really know what to do with their own story.
i feel like miscommunication is well written when it doesn’t need 30 chapters of them acting extremely dumb and stupid. it’s like in horror movies when the protagonist makes the most STUPIDEST choices ever. you just wanna shake them off and slap their face. well it’s the same in books. it’s very frustrating when the plot isn’t going anywhere and that the author is writing bullshit.
i personally hate when a character keeps overthinking and not communicating when a normal sane person woudlve communicated since the start. like omg please for the love of god communicate….

It was a guideverse, iirc the ml had black hair and red eyes (?) And was SUPER obsessed with mc. He was wearing some military outfit too. I cannot remember the plot at all..
this one?
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/approximal_guide/
No but thank you
bloodbound? but the ml looking is actually the bottom