i feel like the majority of actual gay people ik are comfortable with switching how come yaoi authors always feel the need to label strict positions on their characters. no shade to this series specifically i js feel like i see situations like this often in a lot of yaois
Because one has to be the man and the other the woman, duh! We must uphold the patriarchal standard even in homosexual relationships, no matter the cost! - yaoi authors, possibly
It's similar in a lot of the korean yuri I've read, one has to be the receiver and the giver often remains pretty much untouched. Their fingers work like dicks I guess lol
It might be a cultural thing. Homosexuality is only starting to be socially acceptable in a lot of places, so that might be a reason. It hasn't even been that long in western cultures to get away from a heteronormative view on queerness either, I remember ppl asking queer couples about who's the man in the relationship more than once
no this is EXACTLY the reason and what i say all the time. a big issue with queer media written by straight women is they still like the relationship to function within the parameters of heteronormativity. one is the man and one is the woman, end of story.
now theres some like this story where, at least, the bottom acts like a grown adult and isnt a child-like push over. but the author still cant escape the cage completely.
Whoever got nipples is the bottom. And i found on twitter something about seme’s butt cannot be too obvious and facing the camera//readers because it’s gay /s
Yeah you're spot on. Doesn't help that the main target audience is also straight women, I've seen more than enough comments over all the bl's over the years complaining if we have a manly looking bottom or a top that's shorter than the bottom. And I can imagine that sentiment is even stronger in Korea, where the main audience for these publishers is, once again because the queer movement has still a longer way to go than in the west.
But yeah, at least there's more unconventional yaoi coming out lately. I've seen a trend for buff bottoms and short tops, so fingers crossed the next trend is vers couples and unconventional (conventional irl) couples.
You forgot how only the uke has a butthole! I can probably count on one hand I've seen seme buttholes, and I've read hundreds of yaoi, with poses where there clearly should've been a butthole
Omg not the "it's gay when you see his butt"
Yeaa after clicking the reply button, i realized it’s not butt but seme’s bumhole lmaoo. My bad
yeah i do think that a large part of the strict positions has to do with the fetishization some female authors have towards queer characters, like one has to be "masculine" and another has to be "feminine". like you said, a lot of authors probably do this because they live in extremely conservative countries so ig its engraved in their heads that relationships need a fixed top and bottom. it does irck me sometimes but also considering the kind of country the authors live in, it cant rly be helped
LMAOO reading this is making me realize how ridiculous it is, like everyone shits out of somewhere doesnt make a man any less of a man
im not being insensitive, im being rational. i binged this because i was genuinely curious abt what could have prompted Jaemin to act the way he does in the story and i have zero sympathy for him even after the backstory i thought maybe he'd have some complex backstory which excuses the way he treats taeyoon but hes just petty. like okay i feel bad for toddler him because of his bio parents but apart from that, there nothing that happens in his life that molds his character. i thought maybe his adopted parents neglected him or sum after having a child but no....they were literally just having a child. As for the situation
i meant to add a spoiler warning but it submitted before i finished wth
Desirescans colonizing tf out of mangago
and the translations are ass :sob:
Yo I'm no better than the mc I fell for this guys ass too
Only 6 chapters actually on here yet it says there are 25 bc of all the fucking uploaders guys I only need to read it once dw
im getting bored of them constantly fucking where are the kids we want to see a family