Ririna's Questions (42)

I really wanna come out as bi too but yah my parents want grandkids and are super conservative so i dont wanna get disowned

Hello! I'm a heterosexual person and know nothing about your struggles. But know, you got this! I love you! (づ￣ ³￣)づ

I haven't come out yet lmao but let's just hope for the best that she'll accept you. It takes time for them to process it but I don't think that it's appropriate to say the words that your mom told you about your gf.

You're so brave that you've come out to your family and even if your mom won't accept you for who you are, then we will always accept and be proud of you (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Omg i’m so sorry:( yeah, if you don’t feel like it’s a safe option then don’t come out! Be safe first!<3

That’s so sweet from you!<3 thank you so much! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ ily!!<33

Yeah, it wasn’t really nice from her:( but i hope that she can accept me and my gf.
Thank you so much!<3 It means a lot to me really

I was 11 and I wrote my feelings down in my notes on my phone for a girl I liked and my little sister saw it, took my phone and showed everyone. I was hella embarrassed but my whole family just went on with life now that Im older tho I asked my mom about it and she said she knew I liked girls since before I was in school, said I reacted more to women than men when I was a baby lol

Omg i’m soo sorry she showed it to everyone:( at least they didn’t have a problem with it and accepted you! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ that’s great!!

It was really scary for me. I didn’t accept that I was gay until I was 16-17. My parents are catholic, but not homophobic. They always made comments that they didn’t care what gay people did that love is love no matter what, but they would also say that they were glad I wasn’t gay.

Haha when I came out they were shocked but accepted me immediately. I always felt kinda bad for them since they were so set on believing that I was gay, but luckily they were very accepting.

I have four other sibling who are straight anyways so they didn’t mind too much ahah.

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i think u should take it lightheartedly. i think most of the time, the tension there is surrounding the conversation of coming out is whats causing doubt to erupt. im not saying dont take it seriously, but what im saying is to go with the flow and show them that contentment u found in ur gf. rather than being nervous, be confident enough to show how happy u are with how u identify with and who ure with. u dont owe anyone an explanation of who u are anyway, not even ur parents, because its urs. coming out is just an act of informing, and people can either take it or leave it, its jot ur responsibility to please them.

im pretty sure that if u let ur parents feel ur joy and love, there wont be any problem(ʘᴗʘ✿)

good luck babes♡˖꒰ᵕ༚ᵕ⑅꒱

i actually came out last month without realising it! my older cousin keep asking me if im lesbian bc of my haircut. i have boy cut, btw. then, i cant say anything bc im really confused between bi and lesbian. so i jist answered them, "ahm, i just dont find boys attractive anymore. but fictional character does" then, yea. btw, my WHOLE family was there and they just laugh and keep teasing me. i think my mom accepted me bc she was lesbian before she met my dad, yea. that's it. u can do it, bestie! goodluck <33

I can relate to you so much!
My parents aren’t homophobic either, but i think they’ll be a little shocked because they really think i am straight.
you are so brave!! i am so happy that everything went well! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
And i can understand they don’t really mind if you have four other siblings haha

What a great advice! You really made me feel like it’s not that big of a deal. It’s my life and not theirs. Thank you so much <3 you must be a great person!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

Ohh I’m happy my situation is similar to yours so you can relate.

I think my parents would accept me even if I was the only child, but since I had the other siblings it probably helped soothe them a little? Ahah.

Hopefully everything goes well, I’ll pray for you. But honestly I think it’ll go fine. I hope you’ll be happy with your girlfriend!! Good luck friendo! <3

i don't think i ever actually came out i just said someone who was my gender was hot and my mum was like "huh, didn't think they'd be your type"

good luck!! i wish you the best (⌒▽⌒) wish i could give advice but i’m too scared to come out to my parents yet lmao

Wow girl you really just came out to your whole family haha. You’re so bravee<3
I am happy that your mother accepted youヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ Thank you bestiee<33

You are so sweet!! I hope so too! Thank you so much!<33 and have a wonderful day! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Haha i love this. And i love your mom’s reaction. She didn’t make a big deal out of it then. I’m happy for u!<3

Thank you so much!<33 don’t worry, you don’t need to rush this! It’s all up to you if you want to tell them or not!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ I wish you the best too!<3

yeah it was really nice to not have to worry and not have it be some massive deal! i hope everything goes well for you too!! (づ￣ ³￣)づ

ur welcome babes hope everything goes well(*˘︶˘*).｡*♡

Hey guys!
I don’t know if any of you will see this, but i did it! I told my sister and my parents that i have a girlfriend. It was in a restaurant and they were a little bit surprised. My father and sister is super supportive, so they didn’t have a problem with it. And my mom... she needs some time i guess. But overall i think it went well.
So i want to thank all of you for sharing these personal experiences! Have a nice day guys and Happy Pride Month!

Ya I think it’s new but I personally don’t like cuz it gives more access to people and they can mess with the chapters.

yeah, actually i saw that option too

I think everyone can update

Anyone can upload them but it's an unwritten rule that if you wanna pick up some already translating manga you gotta ask for permission from it's recent uploaders or it might mess things up. But it's ok if they're dropped

Yeah I have a feeling that a lot of people are gonna troll and shit with this

I'm pretty sure mangago needs to approve the chp before it's uploaded? But I feel like it's still gonna start a bunch of scan drama I've already seen

Oh noo:( it’s not good then. And they’ll have a lot of work with going over all of these troll updates.

they don't approve anything now when you update the chapter goes up right away, and I saw 2 same updates cuz of this, previous system was less problematic :(

Noo that’s really problematic:( maybe they’ll change it back after they see all the mess. It wasn’t a good idea at all

you know what? I just found out that mangago did this so that lezhin could track the uploaders IP and ban them from their websites/ find their location etc, it's all written in their twitter ;( the fuck?

Jazz for two
Semantic error
My starry sky

Semantic error

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/pairing_names/

Wow thank u babes for all of u!!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/469103/

Thank u dear! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Kagehina, where hinata falls in love first http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/haikyuu_usotsuki_canon_doujinshi/

Thank u dear! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

hey i haven't come out to my parents yet because they're extremely homophobic but if you're planning on coming out to your parents i wish you the best of luck and i pray everything goes well for you <3

I really didn't need to come out like if that makes sense(and English is not my first language so please forgive me if it's confusing) I've been dating my best friend for about 3 years all my friends are very supportive and about my parents I talk about her in front of them call her my girlfriend occasionally to see their reaction but neither my mom or dad didn't seem to mind so now I'm very comfortable in front of them holding or kissing her but I've never come out officially??? idk if that makes sense lol

hi so this is not about me but my friend and because its anonymous i believe it to be fine if i share a little of their story
so my friend always believed they were really straight until they met a person of the same genre one day, they hit it off really well from the start, that person is around 4/5 years older than my friend and at first they mistake feelings of love for admiration/respect/ etc you name it, but when came the moment to go different ways, my friend realized their true feelings and felt really lost
we were younger at the time (around 16 i think) and both really uneducated on the subject and about love in general so when my friend called me to talk about our feelings i was totally at a loss for words and was of no help at all
she asked me if she should talk about it with their mom as they have quite the close relationship but they were scared of being judged and of their mother being disappointed with her child having such thought towards the same gender.
but at the time, our train of thoughts ended up being that the mother, having worked as a model in the fashion industry and being well acquainted/friends with publicly homosexual people, that would mean that she was open minded and understanding of the topic.... bad way of thinking as behavior in the professional environment might not reflect one's personality, but my friend really wanted to talk about it with their mother so they went for it
they explained that they met this person of the same gender during the filming of a series (my friend wants to work in cinema), that the person was amazing, that they had a really good time with that person and that in the end they might have developed romantic feelings for that person. they were really nervous but hopeful they would get support
the mother somehow quickly brushed it off and asked about that one person of the opposite gender that seemed interested in my friend a couple weeks prior to that discussion (my friend talked about the person to their mom asking for advice on how to turn down someone if they weren't interested, obviously saying they were not interested) and the mom who used to say that they should absolutely not force themselves if they weren't attracted to someone, tried to bring up that same person my friend wasn't interested in and told them to go on a date with them or something because they were the opposite gender
idk if what im writing is really understandable but my mind is getting confused haha
anyways my friend was really sad that their mom brushed off the subject the way she did. they told me it felt like she was saying "omg omg no no no you are not starting to feel attracted to the same gender, go on a date with the opposite gender it'll make you realize you are actually attracted to them"
so yes, not really accepting.. my friend right now is really supported by their friends but not so much by their family
they are still confused as to how to define themselves and i think that deep down they would really want to just be 100% straight, for their mom, for their family, because its less "problems", its more "acceptable" etc
it makes me kinda sad ╥﹏╥

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_wo_suru_tsumori_wa_nakatta/?WOMS
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/boku_no_omawarisan/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/on_doorstep/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dangerous_convenience_store/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_ga_ochitara/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kokoro_kanda_neko/

Here are few~

oh thank uu so much!:333ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

Happy to help :)