when anxious-avoidant attachment and anxious attachment start dating each other...
They are both young and still need to face and sort out the many traumas that they went through in order to have a happy relationship. If they leave their issues with past loves to rot then how are you supposed to have a healthy relationship moving forward? Those emotions do not just disappear over time.. THE AUTHOR PORTRAYS THIS BEAUTIFULLY.
Relationships are always going to be a push and pull. I think Skylar saw something in Cirrus, not as a replacement for Chan Il, he genuinely had affection for him as a person. As long as Skylar keeps that in mind, I hope this is not his breaking point even though Cirrus said some crazy a** s*** to him. It's true that Skylar is afraid of attachment because of what happened in the past but it's not Cirrus' place to bring it up. He's definitely stepping over so many boundaries and does not know how to communicate because of his toxic ass family.
I hope the best for them because I think they could be happy if they helped each other, but a lot needs to happen before they get to that point. I think these two have the ability to give each other strength to work for a healthier relationship as long as they both put in the effort. I'm so excited to see how these characters develop!!
(i feel insane for loving these 2 :))
Certified yapper here.
I definitely agree! I think he may have had a crush on him cause he looked like Minwoo's "type" with the bubbly and cheerful but he was genuinely really nice which is something Skylar needed after being literally traumatized by his first love and also best friend, it felt like an oppoutunity to maybe heal and get over it by having Chan Il as Minwoo's stand-in.
Cirrus is different in the fact that their relationship and feeling towards each other are actually rooted in reality and experiences they've had with each other that were a lot less one sided than a crush. They do have a good dynamic going on when they're not at each other's throats. There's things that they can build on if they tried to nurture the relationship.
Story telling feels a little off in the sense where it's all over the place with time skips and plot holes. It doesn't really feel cohesive, especially when it was very plot driven then all of a sudden everyone is getting their own reverse harem route. Then we get thrown back into the plot RIGHT after some very heavy scenes which I definitely would've liked to explore a little bit before rushing into a HUUUGE plot point. S2 is a rollercoaster.
I feel like the characters all have very strong personalities and their relationships could be delved into a whole lot more. I feel like because it's based off a novel, there are a lot of things that couldn't be explained with just art and dialogue unfortunately. We can't hear everyone's thoughts so we're all just witnessing horrible events unfold and then it's questionable how everyone emotionally processed it. I'm an overthinker so I need my reassurance!
Side note: I wish there was more development between the two brothers!!!! He is enduring so much for the sake of his brother and yet the only thing we know about big bro is his name and he's clean. Even now older brother needs to be saved and yet I just don't give a fuck if he lives or dies unless its because of plot development. Sigh!
Can someone recommend another yuri/shoujo ai that's like this one? Fluffy and really cute? The slow burn is killing me though. I lowkey crave smut with fluff. I've yet to find a good yuri like that
you could check out my list
i categorise all the stuff there but it's not finished yet but it's just a list of my fav GL manga tho hehe
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/948796/?filter=&page=1
When it showed his insides literally getting torn apart ... actually disturbing