Dowha is clearly âthe nice guy,â like Jeremiah and Taku in Love or Hate. These are ppl who seem sensitive and kind, but only when it serves their own interests. Soae is a trophy for him. He doesn't respect her refusal he imposes his advances on her even though she DOESNâT want him, he has been rejected 3 times but he continues to follow her, he completely projects his feelings he is like a child who cannot accept not getting what he wants.
Sure if u want a guy who abandons u for 10 years and his reason is âAua im lowkey deaf in my left ear hahaâ Kay take the man buddy. Also Dohwa is not rlly the âniceâ guy u are making him to be. Sooae is the one who approached him she is the one that asked him about his feelings. If a man doesnât lose feelings for u after 10 years that says more about u than about him. If u wanna call someone a bad character call Sooae out. She is the one that canât seem to respect herself and others enough to let it go. She kissed a man to get information out of him and than went and kissed back a guy who clearly had feelings for her. If she doesnât have feelings for him she can just reject him. There hasnât been a third rejection idk where tf u read that maybe there is an alternative universe. But Dohwa got rejected only once. Grow up and stop letting looks win u over
So weâre still going with the âhe left because of his earâ narrative? thatâs interesting, considering the story has made it clear multiple times, including back in middle school, that it was about his family. Not embarrassment. Not âhaha lowkey deaf.â His family. But I guess if youâre only reading for Dohwa, actually remembering plot points can get inconvenient.
Now about Dohwa. He got rejected in middle school. He got rejected again recently. And her reaction after that kiss? That was rejection too. Just because he refuses to process it doesnât mean it didnât happen.
I agree Sooae should be clearer but letâs not pretend heâs oblivious. He sees her vulnerability he sees sheâs emotionally unstable in that moment and instead of stepping back, he chooses to push forward and secure a place for himself thatâs not pure devotion, thatâs opportunistic.
Sooae clearly struggles with guilt, feeling like she owes Dohwa some form of reciprocation simply because he keeps imposing his feelings on her. Thatâs not romance, thatâs pressure.
And yes, Sooae also uses Dohwa at times to fill the void Eunhyuk left thatâs exactly why I will never ship Sowha theyâre both clinging to something that isnât love itâs loneliness, guilt, and unresolved feelings, not mutual affection.
And please, she didnât âkiss back a guy who clearly had feelings.â He kissed her. Letâs not rewrite the scene just to protect your favorite .
Also, there are plenty of stories where the male lead disappears for years and yâall love those arcs suddenly itâs only a problem here? Letâs be honest, youâre putting all the blame on that time skip because you want it to justify Dohwa being endgame.
Call it preference if you want, but donât twist the narrative just to make it fit.
Nah i just donât have energy to argue with someone who doesnât mind arguing all day. 1. i have school 2. I have an internship 3. i have irl friends who i hang with 4. i could care absolutely less about u trying to rage bait me into starting opinion wars. If u like Eunhyuk good for u. I hope he ends up dying in the end. Thatâs my opinion I donât like him. Keep liking him nobody is stoping u weirdo lol
the other person "lud" was very logically explaining the character sketches and because you didn't have anything meaningful to contribute in the discussion you started getting personal and announcing your life. who asked? if you have internships you better focus on it instead of dumping your misery in here. thanks for the laugh though hahahaha I'm sure Lud has a better life than you given they don't felt the need to overshare about it. LMAO


MY BABY DOWHA my precious boy, my poor innocent angel, he literally deserves the WORLD. I genuinely cannot believe how people treat him in this fandom. Like sorry??? Have you guys ever considered that HE has feelings too??? My poor baby has been through so much just because he loves Sooae. He just wants to be loved, is that really such a crime??? BOUHOUUU EUNGHOST BOUHOUUU EUNSHIT you're so horrible, how could you do this to my poor Sooae when you were depressed, bullied by your father, your mom literally k*lled herself and you lost your hearing??? HOW COULD YOU JUST LEAVE HER LIKE THAT??? PLUS, YOU WERE 17, YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN MORE MATURE AT THAT AGE. I MEAN, IT'S PRETTY COMMON TO HAVE SUCH HORRIBLE THINGS HAPPEN TO YOU AT THAT AGE. AND HOW COULD YOU STAY IN TOUCH WITH RAIM OMG YOU PURSUED HER FOR TEN YEARS???My baby Dowha deserves someone who actually appreciates him. He deserves happiness, he deserves love, he deserves to be chosen for once. I'm so tired of everyone making him the villain when he's just a poor boy with a broken heart. Can't a man be a little emotional anymore??? Yes yes, he pushed his d*ck on her but it's because he LOVES her mouah And honestly, Sooae should be more grateful for everything he's done. My precious boy has suffered enough. I just want to wrap him in a blanket, give him a little kiss on the forehead and tell him that none of this is his fault. HE DID NOTHING WRONG. NOTHING. HE BOUGHT HER A CHAIR. HE TOUCHED HER LIPS IN HIS OWN WEIRD WAY HE CALLED HER PROVOCATIVE
Anyway, Dowha nation, stay strong. They will never make me hate my baby. WE RIDE AT DAWN FOR OUR PRINCE. (I'm actually doing such a good job acting like a Dowha stan)