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Um, it's not that I don't like realistic MCs but she's seriously getting annoying now. Like what do you mean she still thinks adopted children can't be considered own children and wouldn't be loved just as deeply when she's AN ADULT?! like if she was under 20, I would've understood. It's still a young age. I think she's over 20 right? She must've seen a lot, read a lot of novels since she was an editor and stuff, why is she acting like a weak dumbass y/n?
Putting aside her trauma, she's just insulting other foster kids in a way. Thinking they wouldn't be truly loved by other parents.
Like hello?! okay you weren't loved properly and you were neglected a lot, but sweetie, not all parents are like yours. You were unlucky. And when you were an adult why didn't you sought out therapy? Ugh, if stupidity was a person.
I still like the plot even if it's getting weird, it's unique. But small mindedness and childish views are annoying me. As if the blond guy wasn't annoying enough. The ML is so much better than her, he deserves better. (He has his own faults and stuff but atleast he's not even half as annoying as her)
Yeah, this mindset of hers really puts me off, but im sure there are many adopted kids that feel the same way she does and we have to remember adults aren't the only ones who read these manhwas. A teen girl reading this story and seeing herself in the FL as she deals with the trauma bit by bit throughout the story might help (in theory)...
We see the FL was so insecure that she was adopted that she saw every little thing her parents did as a subtle way of saying they didn't love her as much as her sister, so piling everything they "did" over the years, it will take some time for her to come to terms with reality
Her parents didn't neglect her, she knows that too. One of her greater fears is that they kept her out of pity instead of actual love. That's why she tries her best to not be burden and never complains. She took the fire thing when they she didn't hear them call for her as their subconscious answer of whether they actually loved her as a daughter or a charity case.
And tbh I don't think they didn't call her name or search for she just didn't hear it when the fire was everywhere.
That's still her fault. Trauma is one thing, and we are responsible no matter we like it or not to heal ourselves. She could've gone to therapy, get better, get some genuinely nice friends. It was for plot sake I understand that, but her trauma could've been something deeper and different is what I think.
Her trauma pf hers is so shallow and fake. She didn't show that at first and out of nowhere it popped up. I understand that everyone has different traumas and it hits different to each but that doesn't mean she isn't annoying tho.
She doesn't mind sticking on "orphans are replaceable and aren't genuinely loved" but not on how ML could also abandon her as he could fall for other women or his previous lover. her past is over, her parents have moved on, she's in different world now. She has a curse rn and a husband to look out for in case he cheats (they met for a short while and married even shorter time so doubting him is valid) but instead she is focused on her non existent past now. Like gurl, come on. you cannot be this weak. imagine focusing on your shallow trauma when you can die at my moment.
Are we now giving trauma rates for approval? Excuse me do you hear yourself?
Not trauma rates. I just want her to remember she has more important things to prioritise rather than focusing on her traumas, and asking stupid questions like "orphans can never be loved like own children". she's an adult for god's sake. Be mature is what I want to tell her. And anyways, I wrote so much and u decided to focus on one thing?
I didn't write much because I didn't like you down playing something called trauma. Everyone proces life differently. Mc practically brainwashed herself into that mentality even before meeting the adored parents, remember how she led about her age too? So dating that becoming an adult gives a person the discretion to get out of a great they have never articulated not even once to anyone is so out of touch I deliberately ignored it, thinking you were rage baiting
I didn't write much because I didn't like you down playing something called trauma. Everyone processes life differently. Mc practically brainwashed herself into that mentality even before meeting the adopted parents, remember how she lied about her age too? So saying that becoming an adult gives a person the discretion to get out of a fear they have never articulated not even once to anyone, is so out of touch I deliberately ignored it, thinking you were rage baiting
"brainwashed" herself, yes, that's why she needs therapy. i apologise if I came across as downplaying the trauma but seriously, just because she doesn't have anyone to talk about it or has never experienced true love doesn't mean she should remain like that tho. her trauma is one thing and her saying other orphans aren't genuinely loved is another thing which is offensive. I understand her trauma, but as an adult, you need to take responsibility for yourself.
She's not a child anymore is she. if she harms anyone or herself, who's responsible? Herself. Because she was clearly in a position to get better in her og world but she hasn't. And anyways, after experiencing phases while becoming an adult, reading novels and various media literature and videos and stuff, who still thinks adopted children aren't genuinely loved or seen as own children? I'm sorry if it sounds harsh from me but it's just stupid and so dumb of her
Where did she say they were not loved? She wanted to see them react just like her, unloved. The reason is denial, why? Because if they are loved while being adopted, to her that means she's the problem as a person not just simply blood relations. She had also found herself in the girl the old man told her was always trying to be a good girl. So when the girl who was mostly like her knew she was loved, mc felt inadequate and shame.
Because that means her belief is being shaken
And I'd like to say mc is what? A college student? She's not that old yet to shake of her trauma yet.
Mc is not disregarding the old man's love, she wanted to see children who were loved mot know they were loved. Just like her
The only good thing about manhwa is the ghosts lol