I agree that "complex" gets thrown around too easily but I wouldn’t say something loses all value just because it doesn’t personally challenge you. complexity doesn't have to mean being shocked or uncomfortable every time, sometimes something is "complex" because it handles an idea with nuance or multiple layers even if you still agree with it'...... reply
Hm yes it looks interesting so far, I can tell it's going to be better than alien stage however the fandom is also going to be as bad or maybe even worse.( ̄へ ̄) 1 reply
Yes, I’ve babysit too many babies, toddlers and even teenagers in my life, they’re all my relative’s children and my own siblings. I’ve never petsit though, I would gladly do so if someone offered me but only if it’s cats or birds. I don’t like dogs, just looking at them from afar is good enough for me. reply
I think there’s some truth to this comparison, obviously BL and porn aren’t the same thing, but both seem to attract a lot of moral judgment that can end up causing more harm than the thing people are criticizing in the first place.
I agree with the idea that a lot of the distress people experience can come from moral conflict and shame rather...... reply