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Bee February 8, 2026 8:57 am

It’s grooming.
Anyone over eighteen dating anyone under eighteen is suspicious. Please read my PSA and add cautionary tips/frustrations with this trope bellow.

An adult gains nothing from dating someone younger than 18. At least not ethically

I’m frustrated when I see this trope in any form of media, literature, graphic novel, comic. It’s everywhere. And while I’m all for creative liberties, I fear it’s damaging to the younger public.

I was young once, I used to think age gaps were romantic. Now im an adult and I can tell you right here and now,

No Adult Should Find A Teen Attractive. None.

If you hear “you’re so mature for your age”, then be on alert. This is an adult who has not only confirmed that they know you are young (by saying “for your age”) but that has also rationalized in their heads that you act older and are therefore OLDER.

As in they think “their age doesn’t matter because they act like an adult”. Which could lead to dangerous behaviors.

THIS IS NOT OK.

Ask yourself “why is this adult interested in a high schooler?” “Why doesn’t this adult hang out with other people their age”. “What do they gain from being with me”.

Ima be so for real with you right now.

The only reason an adult will date a younger person is because it makes them feel special and appreciated. Changes are the younger person thinks everything they do is cool when all they’re doing is the bare minimum for an adult. A car, money, jobs, apartment, all that shit is common and no one their age will congratulate them. But a teen thinks they’re amazing and it’s validating.

They are NOT cool. They are lame and pathetic.
And YOU deserve better!!

Your older siblings friend should NOT go looking for you alone.
Your teacher should NOT compliment your body.
Adults should NEVER feel butterflies when seeing teens.


Do nOT feel bad for them.
It is not the responsibility of a teenager to make an Adult happy.

These tropes should remain fiction and not be romanticized.

Please be safe you guys.
You’re more important than you think.
Don’t settle for garbage Groomers.
Listen to your gut.
Find a safe Adult to help you.

Again.
Don’t feel bad for these fuckers.
It is NEVER your job to make an adult feel good.

Bee January 10, 2025 6:16 am

Which clichés do you dislike
I’ll go first.

Cant stand one night stand pregnancy.

There are better reasons for a pressure cooker environment than “we have a baby together”.

Just caaaant stand it.

    Me_for_ president January 10, 2025 6:32 am

    Time skips I absolutely hate it. I dropped just twilight and true operation love for it

    Me_for_ president January 10, 2025 6:33 am

    * Operation true love sorry

    your fave side hoe January 10, 2025 7:50 am
    Time skips I absolutely hate it. I dropped just twilight and true operation love for it Me_for_ president

    OH MY GOD YES I GOT SO MAD AT THAT it was going sk well an then the shift like 6 years later what the FUUUCK

    lebrons 1 pookie bear January 10, 2025 3:46 pm

    debtor x indebted. cuz every single one of these damn bottoms owe 1 trillion dollars cuz their parents abandoned them or smth. it just gets very tiring when everything in the story revolves around money.

    where mc and ml are together already but then mc sees him out with a girl (whos actually his sister/friend or smth like that) and just ASSUMES they're together and gets depressed without even talking to the ml about it. i like it sometimes but its honestly just so over done atp...

    your fave side hoe January 11, 2025 9:26 am
    debtor x indebted. cuz every single one of these damn bottoms owe 1 trillion dollars cuz their parents abandoned them or smth. it just gets very tiring when everything in the story revolves around money. where ... lebrons 1 pookie bear

    dxi is so fucking annoying i cant stand it cus the bottom always ends up owing the top sm and its like "pay me back... with coersion." jaja its so BORING

Bee January 7, 2025 11:29 pm

I want allll of them

What ever you have. Give me your favorite because my react bin is barren

Bee March 30, 2024 7:17 pm

There’s a cliche we’re a FL verbally discusses not wanting intimacy and the ML will do it anyways because: they’re in love, you made me this way, your body is more honest than your words— it doesn’t matter the reason but it turns me off so bad.

I know why it’s done this way, a woman who admits she wants intimacy is often seen as a threat to society as a slut or a dirty minded person. So to move the story along(sexually) we get scenes we’re the ML makes the first move and the FL denies her sexuality, because that’s how some women are in certain situations(culture/timeperiod/ect)

But I dooooont likeeeee ittttt

We have some different kinds of women who don’t do that and take charge- but authors sometimes swap the roles and we end up with “FL tops ML doesn’t want it” which is just as bad.

Any suggestions for a story where FL isn’t constantly refusing intimacy

Astrid May 22, 2021 7:15 am

I lost a manga!!!

It’s a ninja village, the girl had long hair that was normally in a pony tail, with one long strand lose on the side, bangs. And a stereotypical cool/silent type ML

She’s a “useless” ninja, and he’s the next village chief, they’re married, and love each other, but she doesn’t know he likes her because she’s air headed/low self esteem/bad communication. Turns out her ditzy way of living was what drew him to her, and he’s been stalking her since she was like five or something. And she him.

rice was a big theme, theres a rice kimono or something??

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND IT???

Please I miss it ;0; and it’s not where I left it on my lists, and I checked them all.

Astrid February 19, 2021 5:18 pm

Hello hello!!
I’d really appreciate it if you could give me either your top picks for Smutt or anything where they kiss~

I’m in a romance mood! But I can’t find anything

Astrid April 27, 2020 9:50 pm

Why does the lead end up with the one who treated them like hot garbage?? Is it good?? Does anyone even like that irl?

I only keep reading out of hope the lead doesn’t end up with the obvious asshole. WhY

DOES ANYONE ELSE HATE THIS TYPE OF LOVE INTEREST??

    Serendipity April 27, 2020 10:32 pm

    I mean it happens a lot IRL where someone will fall for the toxic people. They tend to never realize it because love is blinding and tend to ignore those who say that person is good for them. Idk if I need to say it but most manwha/manga is banking on the girls who read these things and don't think about the relationship complexly and think about how attractive they are and how dom they are.

    ThatGayChicken April 27, 2020 11:27 pm

    Stockholm syndrome is a blessing. Only reason why the girl in my basement isn’t moving or saying anything.

    mari April 27, 2020 11:51 pm

    Yeah, I agree with you, it's definitely not a good trope but I think I've read it so many times by now I'm kind of conditioned to it? Like, now when I come by it, it honestly barely faces me and I just keep on reading. Sometimes though, I get pleasantly surprised when I see character development or when it turns out there was some reason behind his actions. Although, of course, that all depends on the reason. If the reason is BS I get seriously disappointed. If the story is poorly written then of course the character development or whatever doesn't matter in the end. Though, I guess the reason I keep on reading these stories, even though I know the ML is a jerk, is because I truly hope for that sweet character development and love to read stories with characters starting from the bottom and crawling their way to the top and learning something.

Astrid March 31, 2020 7:58 am

It’s a rare find but Soft Doms? I’m a little annoyed/bored of the aggressive ML’s. I’d like a strong willed FL.

Honestly? Any cute boy who’s unexpectedly dominant would be *chef kiss* BL, Romance, Smutt. I like seeing that gap....

Plz Help!!!!! I’m dYing
Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

Astrid February 7, 2020 8:38 pm

Looking for anything that made you laugh!
I love comedies!!

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