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Thinking about the fact that the popularity o...
Woah gay people July 12, 2026 8:19 am

Thinking about the fact that the popularity of BL and the dislike of GL is rooted in patriarchy, since most people cannot imagine a relationship without a man involved

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    Ren July 12, 2026 8:32 am

    I’ve always thought the opposite, but more in the broader terms of female couples or male. I think I’ve always observed more disgust towards gay men than lesbians when it comes to homophobes. Since so much is dictated by the patriarchy and so many men like to watch things concerning two women I think it’s more normalized. Whereas they see two men and are disgusted simply because it’s not what they’re attracted to. Double standards

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    crimsoncrow July 12, 2026 8:34 am

    honestly kinda hate bl being my main my low attention span cant stick to gl unless its yuri most works i come across fall under these
    -onesided bullied
    -power imbalance forced
    -oneside sexual harassment borderline yuri but we are girls here. who like being touchy feely
    -they are not much more than friends
    - doomed yuri

    the actual onees. with good yuri and gl th3 hidden gems are. hard. to find so i switch back to bl quick

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    Woah gay people July 12, 2026 8:45 am
    I’ve always thought the opposite, but more in the broader terms of female couples or male. I think I’ve always observed more disgust towards gay men than lesbians when it comes to homophobes. Since so much ... Ren

    You see, men simply sexualise lesbian relationships. They still do not support them, they just get off on the thought of them. Whereas patriarchy tries to dictate it as "women cannot survive happy without a man at their side", which is why most of the GL works are made doomed or toxic. There is far more BL than GL, too, since plenty straight women fawn over the thought of two men being together. Lesbian couples are always overshadowed by gay ones in media. For example, look at this site. GL works are rarely updated and added, whereas BL works are constantly pouring out. I do not deny the fact that gay relationships are also fetishised by straight women, but more often than not, BL works garner more positive attention than GL ones.

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    Woah gay people July 12, 2026 8:51 am
    honestly kinda hate bl being my main my low attention span cant stick to gl unless its yuri most works i come across fall under these-onesided bullied -power imbalance forced-oneside sexual harassment borderlin... crimsoncrow

    Yes that’s the problem! GL works are extremely hard to find since people mostly ignore them, thus they cannot gain fans and are quickly cancelled. The fact that you can’t find anything good isn’t your fault, it’s the fault of the structure of our society and patriarchal views, as I explained in a different reply. It’s either sexualised, doomed or toxic stuff.

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    Ren July 12, 2026 9:10 am
    You see, men simply sexualise lesbian relationships. They still do not support them, they just get off on the thought of them. Whereas patriarchy tries to dictate it as "women cannot survive happy without a man... Woah gay people

    Hmm if we’re talking about stereotypes of GL having more toxic endings would it correlate to the number of men who write them? I admit I don’t know the statistics of male to female writers in GL but it makes sense that if men predominantly write them they would even subconsciously/or on purpose add those themes almost as a sabotage while fulfilling their fetish. Maybe it’s also because there’s so many female BL writers that they can often contain more positive or fulfilling endings? But it could also be because women in general are more predisposed than men to be accepting of the lgbtq+ community that BL (which are primarily consumed by women) receive more positive attention. In my personal opinion I think the female population is more forward thinking so I based it on that.

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    crimsoncrow July 12, 2026 9:21 am
    I’ve always thought the opposite, but more in the broader terms of female couples or male. I think I’ve always observed more disgust towards gay men than lesbians when it comes to homophobes. Since so much ... Ren

    i thinkntrue in double standards straiight women might not always like seeiing 2 woman together cut it feels offf and ok with gaay men and vice versa someone where in between exists straight women with girl crushes on baddies but are straight

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    Goddess July 12, 2026 9:49 am

    Tbh I think most BL fans who don't read GL simply aren't interested in GL rather than dislike it outright. I've even come across lesbians who say they prefer BL

    Fandom culture and anything that is considered catered to women, typically centers around romantic relationships with men. That's why het and BL are more popular than GL. Most people who write romance are in this market.

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Does anyone recommend any good villainess sto...
Woah gay people June 17, 2026 6:54 am

Does anyone recommend any good villainess stories? I’d be extra happy if the heroine wasn’t evil either.. (▰˘◡˘▰)

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Can we talk about older women. They’re so h...
Woah gay people June 11, 2026 6:27 pm

Can we talk about older women. They’re so hot. Especially if they’re tall and call you "sugar" or "darling" or "sweet girl" n’ shi I be fumbling like a newborn fawn

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    Datrulu June 11, 2026 6:47 pm

    My southern bum if I wasn't born to be 5'0"....

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    Valkyrie June 11, 2026 7:24 pm
    My southern bum if I wasn't born to be 5'0".... Datrulu

    Thats cute

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So many new yuri this past week, I feel like ...
Woah gay people June 9, 2026 7:58 am

So many new yuri this past week, I feel like a starving child receiving a Christmas feast, thank you to the uploaders please give us more

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I need new GL. I am starving for new GLs. Why...
Woah gay people March 1, 2026 2:33 pm

I need new GL. I am starving for new GLs. Why is it always Yaoi that has 100+ new works weekly, give me some girl love I’m dying

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    Misanthropical March 1, 2026 2:36 pm

    Literally same, twin. I am having BAD GL withdrawals, I need more of them omg.

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    777 March 1, 2026 2:48 pm

    have you checked out murmur? its rly good

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    Woah gay people March 1, 2026 3:29 pm

    Not the yaoi fans disliking this comment lmao

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    Woah gay people March 1, 2026 3:31 pm
    have you checked out murmur? its rly good 777

    Yes twin I ate it up so fast, I love older women!! I am simply bitter cause there’s barely anything new for GL fans, but then I look at the yaoi tab and ohhh, things update or come out constantly

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    777 March 1, 2026 3:46 pm
    Yes twin I ate it up so fast, I love older women!! I am simply bitter cause there’s barely anything new for GL fans, but then I look at the yaoi tab and ohhh, things update or come out constantly Woah gay people

    YESSS omfg im glad ur enjoying it and i get you so much! the disparity between gl media and bl is so unfair </3

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Anyone know this GL?
Woah gay people February 9, 2026 8:11 pm

I need help… there was this GL I once read where one of the women was being molested by a guy "childhood friend" and her parents didn’t notice a thing. The other female lead was working for her aunt/mom I don’t remember at a rundown apartment complex and the first woman moved in there to avoid the situation at home with that guy and she helped the second girl at the apartment complex. I wanna reread it so bad but forgot the title and since all my stuff got shoved into the "already read" box I can barely find anything jfjdjsjs I’ll give a kiss on the forehead pls help ╥﹏╥

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Searching for manhwa title!
Woah gay people November 26, 2025 11:37 pm

There was this reincarnation manhwa about cooking, the mc was a woman with blue hair that cooked well, she had brothers and a grandpa who I think was a duke?? It was aristocratic fantasy kind of, anyone know the title?

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Do y’all have any recommendations for comed...
Woah gay people November 5, 2025 5:00 pm

Do y’all have any recommendations for comedy GL? I’ll give a lil forehead kiss in return

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Hiii!
Woah gay people August 10, 2025 5:25 pm

Looking for GLs to read! I’d love some fluffy recommendations

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So much new yuri is getting uploaded here… ...
Woah gay people July 30, 2025 12:11 am

So much new yuri is getting uploaded here… thank you, yuri gods

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