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Heather May 28, 2017 3:48 pm

any reccomendations or lists for BL that'll make me cry?

Heather January 31, 2017 4:56 pm

BL:
a pair of lovers keep getting reincarnated but everytime they incarnate its always unfortunate..
one time, one was human and the other was a butterfly.
and then one was a cat. and then there was a time when they were both human but one of them was a soldier who bombed the place the other one, a student at that time, was in.

P.s. this is some pretty sad stuff cuz they keep dying without really getting to love each other because of the short life spans and the unfortunate events.

I couldn't keep it out of my head and now's the only time that I remembered to actually post it here.

Thanks in advance!

Heather December 12, 2016 1:23 am

IT IS MY BIRTHDAY! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    Anonymous December 12, 2016 1:24 am

    (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Nana December 12, 2016 1:27 am

    Happy birthday!! ヾ(☆▽☆)

    Anon December 12, 2016 1:28 am

    Happy Birthday!!!

    saher26 December 12, 2016 1:29 am

    Happy B'day!!! (●'◡'●)ノ

    Unoriginal Artist December 12, 2016 1:33 am

    Happy birthday! Have a cake and eat it too!

    Heather December 12, 2016 1:46 am

    THANK YOU EVERYONE!!! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

    wasd December 12, 2016 2:56 am

    Happy Birthday ☆

    Conscious Memories December 12, 2016 3:57 am

    Happy birthday to you,
    You're older then two,
    You need lots of ice cream,
    And a purple kangaroo!

Heather November 15, 2016 8:04 pm

In a lot of yaoi mangas.. rape becomes kinda ok just because the seme is hot.. although, some of them do have their own reasons like they had a history before or it was onesided or something.. but still.. boy meets boy, then rape, then bg story, then story development (which is actually pretty good at times) , then they are in love.. The end.

but lets face it, would you want to pursue a relationship, or do you even want to see the face of the person who raped you (even if they supposedly like you) ?! how weird would it be when people ask you how you got together?
"he was my co-worker/classmate"
"how'd you get together?"
"oh! well, he raped me, and and then he asked me to go out with him a few days later. he is so romantic, right?"
"..."

I know its fiction, and I actually like reading rape-y manga cuz a lot of them are pretty good, and its a pretty popular trope.. like viewfinder you know? but sometimes, you just question what is going on in people's heads you know? idk.. just an opinion..

what do you think?

    Mirabelle November 15, 2016 8:23 pm

    I'm not fond of dubcon and rape-romance. It's why I stopped to read yaoi as before and focus my readings on shonen-ai.

    I know some women can see themself in the seme because the uke who is a man is raped by a woman with a dick by attribution.

    It's my pov on the question, please excuse my poor english :)

    Miyo November 15, 2016 8:31 pm

    Well, we all feel bad about reading shota or yaoi with rape. But i don't think it's something bad. It's just like video games. Even if you see people get killed, you won't have the idea to kill people (apart if you are mad...) So we should just enjoyed the main story and not only focuse on the "rape part"
    It feels a bit strange sometimes but yaoi are not really representating the reality and it's exagerated. I'm okay with that :)

    (sorry for my bad english level :p)

    Heather November 15, 2016 8:34 pm
    I'm not fond of dubcon and rape-romance. It's why I stopped to read yaoi as before and focus my readings on shonen-ai. I know some women can see themself in the seme because the uke who is a man is raped by a ... @Mirabelle

    I don't read much shounen ai unless its really interesting.. or maybe I haven't really found the really good ones yet... haha! sometimes, it just too pure and innocent, you know? I need the sexy and wild shit. hahah! XD but I get your point, the whole dubcon and noncon thing is pretty sketchy and toxic at times.. like, you're gonna be. "wtf did I just read?!" for like 10 minutes after reading the manga! XD

    Mirabelle November 15, 2016 8:35 pm
    Well, we all feel bad about reading shota or yaoi with rape. But i don't think it's something bad. It's just like video games. Even if you see people get killed, you won't have the idea to kill people (apart if... Miyo

    I also agree with you Miyo : fantasies are fantasies because it's not reality :)

    Karinoooo November 15, 2016 8:39 pm

    I see where you are coming from--"because it's a boy, we dismiss it". In reality, not boyxboy, it happens very often too. Some people stay in the relationship and gets married later some dont.

    The author is allow is to write and draw what he/she wants in their manga though. I never thought once that it was okay to have someone get raped in a story--but I never let it bother me--once it bothers me, i drop the manga. What bothers me is shotacon. =( I cannot even bare to read it if there is a shotacon label.

    Heather November 15, 2016 8:57 pm
    Well, we all feel bad about reading shota or yaoi with rape. But i don't think it's something bad. It's just like video games. Even if you see people get killed, you won't have the idea to kill people (apart if... Miyo

    I agree with you on that! yaoi IS fiction at its core!
    Sometimes, I find it hard to drop the manga though, especially the harada ones. ugh! I just can't help but want to know the ending! XD
    I usually drop mangas when it gets too boring or confusing.
    I used to read shota stuff, and I still do. some of them are cute! but then shota rape is just.. I bugs me in the wrong way at times.. like anyone who looks like he is under the age of 10 would really just turn me off even in my reading manga.. these days, I'd rather go for bara rather than shota.. XD

    masabi November 15, 2016 9:01 pm

    It is a popular trope and not just in yaoi. The ravishment fantasy has been a staple of fiction since fiction was invented. And when a trope is that universal, it's because it is serving a significant psychological need for a large number of readers, in this case, primarily women. So I hate to see people run down rape stories--which are in no way meant to echo real life, normalize or excuse sexual assault--because rape fantasies are so important to female readers. They provide a safe space (as all fiction does or ought to) for women to explore aspects of sexuality without the many constraints placed on them by the society in which they live. Think about how women are sent the message--subtly and overtly--that if they enjoy sex, if they want sex, they are sluts. The ravishment fantasy plays on the desire of women, but it also plays on the power dynamics of sex, where the woman's power is in driving the desire of the man. (Again, we're talking about a metaphor here, not any real life scenario where we know that rape is not about desire at all.) All of this is particularly true in yaoi because yaoi also frees female readers from gender baggage.

    Readers who have trouble differentiating between the metaphors of fiction and real life are probably best staying away from these stories. Not every story is for every reader. I, personally, have a serious problem with the concept of brain eating and therefore, I avoid zombie stories. But I understand that zombie metaphors are important to others. Get it?

    Now you ask an interesting question re: how rape is handled within the story, and it would be nice to see yaoi writers actually work the trope through the story and deal with the aftermath. But you might have to look to fanfiction for that.

    Arianna November 16, 2016 12:34 am

    the reason why it's fiction is partly because in no way is yaoi rape like real life rape. there are some mangas that portray it realistically, but in the majority cases, they are nothing like what rape in real would be like. Stockholm Syndrome in not something that everyone that gets raped can have, which is why rape in yaoi doesn't necessarily connect to the one in real life. You would hardly ever see a rape yaoi where the victim does NOT fall for the seme or the seme was NOT doing it out of love. Rape ,in many cases in real, is due to the aggressor wanting to show his superiority over the victim. that is not the case in most yaoi. the rape in yaoi are rape fantasies. they do not reflect what would actually happen, but just what we want to happen, that CAN'T HAPPEN in real.

Heather November 5, 2016 5:00 am

My life is falling apart and my only escape is yaoi manga..
I'm failing my exams.. I don't have any real friends in college, and I feel that people really do not like me.. I'm not really comfortable with interacting with people..
I'm so stressed out because of school work. Everything keeps piling up. I don't know what to do. I feel so worthless. sometimes, I wanna just cry, but I can't. So, I just read some manga or fanfics to cheer me up.
I know some people have it harder than me, but I just feel so depressed and isolated. I want to take a leave of absence, but my parents would kill me since its just a few more weeks till the sem ends.. I don't know what to do.

    Coco_CoVerra November 5, 2016 5:23 am

    My advice to you is just take an hour break, go out for a walk sort out the easiest task first then move on to the hardest one (regarding school work), cry if you want to cry because crying is normal, I cry a lot when I get stressed out and it actually makes me feel better because you are letting out all of your emotions that has been bottled up. When youre at school you should try and talk to people because if you dont school will get so much harder when you have no one, it sucks to go to school and have no one to hanh with or talk to so just try and spread your wings, it will be scary at first and you'll want to back away but jusy do it little by little and you'll notice the changes. Try and be positive too, sounds easy enough but in truth its not easy to try and be positive, when youre having a big week and youre all stressed out plan something for yhe weekend like go for a walk, ride a bike, have a long warm bath so that you can look forward to it. And if everything just gets too much for you, tell someone (your parents, a teacher, a councillor) exactly how youre feeling because the worst thing you could do is keeping everything bottled up inside.
    Im not saying this thinking Im an expert at councilling people, Im saying this because Ive gone through what you have, I have anxiety and depression but Ive learned to deal with it because I have my bestfriend that will always be there for me and my parents who support me no matter what. I hope what Ive posted help you in someways much love

    Anonymous November 5, 2016 5:28 am

    If you are that stressed out and depressed, then a) see a health professional and b) think about taking a semester off to gather your strength and restore your health. Depression is deadly, I know, because two of my classmates went through hell, one took her own life, the other dropped out of society and did not leave her home for almost four years and never finished her education. A a third ended up with severe health issues because she just kept going despite her depression.

    Cytus November 5, 2016 5:34 am

    Oh my god, right with you. I have a midterm on Monday and I'm super behind! I probably should be studying but I'm so fed up with it and yaoi just makes things better for me.
    I, too, suck at making friends. They say college is when you'll have the most fun but everything just fucking sucks.

    Heather November 5, 2016 6:38 am
    My advice to you is just take an hour break, go out for a walk sort out the easiest task first then move on to the hardest one (regarding school work), cry if you want to cry because crying is normal, I cry a l... Coco_CoVerra

    Thank you! I really appreciate it. Now that I think about it.. It has been a really long time since I have just calmed down honestly. I couldn't concentrate at all these days and it has been taking a toll on well... everything.. Sometimes, I think I have anxiety issues honestly.. I just feel so anxious all the time that I can't even concentrate on the things that I 'm actually doing.. I should just take a walk around to really just calm myself down and feel some peace even just for a little while..
    I really do try to talk to people.. but its just so hard to connect with them, you know? Sometimes, I feel that everyone is just too.. fake around each other.. and it makes me question my friendship with them. Another thing is that sometimes, people are already so close with other people that its hard to actually be part of their group that it makes me just back off.. :( But I should try some more.. maybe I can do it.. hopefully..

    Heather November 5, 2016 6:55 am
    If you are that stressed out and depressed, then a) see a health professional and b) think about taking a semester off to gather your strength and restore your health. Depression is deadly, I know, because two ... @Anonymous

    I really want to take a semester off. even if it is next semester, but I don't think my parents would approve of it.. :( I study in a prestigious school in my country and me leaving for a sem would cause people to talk..
    I want to go to a professional to deal with my depression and anxiety, but my parents don't believe in those kinds of things.. and would just say that I am making things up and tell me to stop whining all the time..
    My friend was in the same situation as I am and she almost died from a suicide attempt.. she left school for a semester, and shes doing better than she was before..
    I guess I should visit my college's guidance counselor, maybe It can help.. I hope it can help..

    Heather November 5, 2016 7:02 am
    Oh my god, right with you. I have a midterm on Monday and I'm super behind! I probably should be studying but I'm so fed up with it and yaoi just makes things better for me. I, too, suck at making friends. They... Cytus

    I missed an exam for a class that I was already failing.. My projects are all not done yet.. but me too.. I'm just so done with everything...
    but I guess we should really start to get serious, you know?
    Making real friends in college is hard because everyone is fleeting..

Heather July 18, 2016 8:35 am

anyone know where I can read otokonoko to koi??

Heather July 18, 2016 8:11 am

I just love it when semes get crazy and just fuck the shit out of the uke's boy pussy.

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/joshi_bl/mf/c005/30/

he didn't even care that a girl was looking at them while fucking.

(fuck, I'm going to hell for this.. well, at least we'll at be there, amiright? )

Heather June 27, 2016 4:51 am

yandere yaoi anyone?

(No ogawa chise or harada tho.. )

    KikiBee June 27, 2016 5:04 am

    Kawaii Akuma has moments of this, and Some of Madarame Hiro's other stuff fits too...like scarlet

    Heather June 27, 2016 5:16 am
    Kawaii Akuma has moments of this, and Some of Madarame Hiro's other stuff fits too...like scarlet KikiBee

    yeah, I like that manga as well! :D

    Heather June 27, 2016 5:17 am
    Try this :Dhttp://www.mangago.me/read-manga/love_monster_mio_junta/ Gore_Whore

    That was cute! :D I should reread it! haha!

    takame June 27, 2016 5:18 am

    hi, there's more to yandere than ogawa chise and harada. i'm not finished adding but you can start at this page http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/69274/?filter=&page=5

    Gore_Whore June 27, 2016 5:20 am
    That was cute! :D I should reread it! haha! Heather

    So you have read it already? :D How about this one? :3
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/itou_san_kuraka_sui/

    takame June 27, 2016 5:24 am
    So you have read it already? :D How about this one? :3http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/itou_san_kuraka_sui/ Gore_Whore

    ^ this manga. it's a dark one. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
    aahhh, seeing it reminds me that i have to reread the damn thing and put on tags yadayada...

    Heather June 27, 2016 5:31 am
    So you have read it already? :D How about this one? :3http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/itou_san_kuraka_sui/ Gore_Whore

    that was pretty dark! haha! I loved that one!
    Apparently, I have read itou san before, but then I can't remember it what it was about.. XD
    Imma read it again! Thanks, again! :D

    Heather June 27, 2016 5:32 am
    hi, there's more to yandere than ogawa chise and harada. i'm not finished adding but you can start at this page http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/69274/?filter=&page=5 takame

    Thanks for your list!! I skimmed through it and it looks promising! XD

    Gore_Whore June 27, 2016 5:33 am

    Yeah its dark, but its so damn good!~ :D

    takame June 27, 2016 5:39 am
    Thanks for your list!! I skimmed through it and it looks promising! XD Heather

    well, if you are requesting yandere that means you are fine with sensitive topics like rape. my reviews included hazards just in case. other than that, just enjoy

    KikiBee June 27, 2016 5:44 am

    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/m_nano_baka_nano_hentai_nano/ he's just in general broken...but I'd say yandere... but its played for laughs a bit...
    and this one's about a stalker... http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/akutai_wa_toiki_to_mazariau/

    SugarySuga June 27, 2016 6:22 am
    So you have read it already? :D How about this one? :3http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/itou_san_kuraka_sui/ Gore_Whore

    This brings back depressing but beautiful memories T_T

    Heather June 27, 2016 7:03 am
    well, if you are requesting yandere that means you are fine with sensitive topics like rape. my reviews included hazards just in case. other than that, just enjoy takame

    I love it when the seme is obsessive about the uke. vice versa! :D It just feels so forbidden and dark, and I love it! XD

    Heather June 27, 2016 7:05 am
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/m_nano_baka_nano_hentai_nano/ he's just in general broken...but I'd say yandere... but its played for laughs a bit...and this one's about a stalker... http://www.mangago.me/rea... KikiBee

    I love the M nano manga!!! XDD its so cuuute! XD
    I haven't read the other manga you recommended yet! nice! :D
    Thanks!!

    ZoSan June 27, 2016 1:46 pm

    Didn't mean to dislike ヽ(´ー`)┌

    I-l-y322 June 20, 2016 2:41 pm

    Wanna know. 2

    Agnes June 20, 2016 3:12 pm

    This is an art. This is on the bottom of the picture.

    lunaren June 20, 2016 8:36 pm

    That, my friend, would be from Detective Conan
    the bottom guy is akai and the top guy is rei
    Akai x Rei
    happy fangirling
    (●'◡'●)ノ

    Heather June 21, 2016 5:09 pm
    That, my friend, would be from Detective Conanthe bottom guy is akai and the top guy is reiAkai x Reihappy fangirling (●'◡'●)ノ lunaren

    Thanks, friend! :D

Heather June 3, 2016 12:23 pm

1. Would you date someone who you have nothing in common with? ( Or you don't share the same interests. Ex. He is obsessed with sports but then you don't really like sports at all)
2. Would you date someone who does not like yaoi and think that it is disgusting/not normal and he/she obviously disapproves of you reading it? (Ex. "Kissing should be for a boy and a girl! Not a boy and a boy!")
3. Would you date someone who knows nothing about anime or manga or fandoms? ( Ex. He doesn't even know what a slytherin is!)
4. Would you date someone who is high maintenace? (Ex. You have to text and see each other every single day.)

Note: Sometimes, answers may seem so stupidly obvious, but please just humor me. Most people would say no to most, if not all, the questions but the reasons may be different or there may be different takes on the situation. Some people may even answer yes. I'd like to know your opinions and reasons. :)

    Harmonia June 3, 2016 12:54 pm

    Let's see...
    1. Maybe. I like to think of myself as a pretty open minded person so I'm pretty on board with learning about new things, especially if it's something the other person loves, because it's a way to connect to one another. On the other hand I'm really bad at conversations so if we have absolutely nothing in common it's hard for me to talk to that person.

    2. Nope. You can think yaoi is gross and not like it, that's a very valid opinion to have. But I'm a grown ass (kinda) woman so I don't need anyone's approval on what I enjoy or do not enjoy. I think people should enjoy what they enjoy (as long as it's legal), have at it. Also if the person has the mentality of "Kissing should be for a boy and a girl! Not a boy and a boy!" I wouldn't be looking in their direction in the first place, bigoted asses aren't my type.

    3. Yes I would. I don’t really need them to be into/know about everything I’m into, as long as they aren’t judgmental we’re good. Also, I’ve never read or seen a lot of famous books and movies, including Harry Potter, so I’m not one to judge either.

    4. I don’t like to text, and I’m pretty sure I would be annoyed if someone was up my ass 24/7 so I’m going to go with no.

    Cricri June 3, 2016 1:04 pm

    1. Yes, I think I would. You may find something in common later on, or you may start liking something you didn't know about (or the other way around).

    2. NOPE. If he hates yaoi to the point of saying something like that, that means he is homophoboic, and it's out of the question (my sister being a lesbian and all, I'm veeeery sensitive to this topic).

    3. Yes, it's kind of like the first question. I will make him discover a brand new world !

    4. No, I couldn't.

    ❀Kαηαdє June 3, 2016 1:34 pm

    Well...
    1.Yes.It maybe help me to learn new things.If it is also help me to know more about him,why not?After all I'm so easy to get influenced. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    2.No way in hell.That would make us break up.I love yaoi and he hates yaoi,it just like sky and earth.But if he can accept the gayness,maybe I change my mind.(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    3.Yes.It's not like only anime that I into.Maybe we have same interest like movies,books(recently I read books,don't know why,just read it xD) and other else.Furthermore,a person like that is easy to dragged into anime (=・ω・=)

    4.Maybe.I'm easy to get bored soooooo it's okeh.But if it so annoying I will say NO.It's not like I can text with him everyday,I have my own business too. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    Anonymous June 3, 2016 2:30 pm

    Hey hey I scrolled and scrolled and saw your questions
    uhh lemme take a look...
    1. Yes. Since he likes it, it won't hurt to try it out and learn something new. Maybe I might fall in love with it, so why not? You'll never know what will happen until you test it out right?(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    2. As a fellow fujoshi, no. Nooooooooooooo. You! *points at the guy* yes you! shut your bloody mouth and go away. You are not my boyfriend anymore. I get it that you're straight and all that, but I just can't accept people who judge about other couples. What are you? Their mom? It's not their fault that they fell in love with the same gender. Dude, we live in a free world, a world filled with rainbows. Don't spoil the scenery with that face of yours, get out of my sight (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

    3. Yes! You know nothing about animes and mangas? It's alright, let ore-sama teach you all about it. I'll make sure he falls in love with it till the point he couldn't live with it as I drag him to the world of otakusヾ(☆▽☆)

    4. Depends on the person actually. I don't mind texting as long as he's not doing it 24/7. If it gets too annoying then no, I don't like people who are too clingy, I have my own privacy too you know! (  ̄□ ̄||)

    rottenyfg June 3, 2016 2:49 pm

    I say yes to most haha, not the 2nd one tho. I cant have my bf being disgusted at my hobby right...

    ~illoveyaoi June 3, 2016 2:53 pm

    1. Yes. You'll learn new things about that particular hobby/interest and your partner. And base on my experience, sooner or later you will like his/her hooby/interest too.

    2. you know some people just dont like it and im not going to push what i like if he doesnt want . For example i have a male friend who once see me reading yaoi and say its disgusting, for me its normal for a guy to react like that, he doesnt bully and annoy me because of yaoi. BUT if he is so disrespectful that he calls me names for reading it and make this an issue everyday.. then nope.

    3. Yes, same reason as number 1

    4. I dont mind texting everyday, but not every single minute! Some people are annoying, they want the details of your every single move. I dont like meeting everyday, i want to breath and i need space.

    Ps: sorry for my terrible english.. ┗( T﹏T )┛

    Anonymous June 3, 2016 3:34 pm

    1. Yeah I'd still date them, you learn from them, and I'm not the type of person who can only think about her hobby and interest everyday and every minute to the point of being predictable. I like to mix stuff up sometimes.

    2. Yeah they don't have to like the same stuff i like.

    3. Yeah, but he still has to have good humour.

    4. O gosh I'd try, but I'm not much of a texter, so we'd probably not last long.

    Anonymous June 3, 2016 4:10 pm

    Well, actually right now I'm dating someone that resemble type 1,2,3,4 (● ̄(エ) ̄●)

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