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Same here. Everyone else will be happily chitchatting when the teacher's not around and I just sit there awkwardly by myself, pretend to be occupied with homework. I do have friends, but not close enough to just talk about random things and random time. Maybe it's just me.
I'm in a somewhat same situation as u so sadly I can't give any advice. But u can always share your worries here, I'll listen.

Yeah, I know what you're talking about, I've been there a few times myself. But, usually, when it's happen, I try to make friends with people that sat near me. I'm also bad, like really bad, at making friends. People seems to think that I'm the overly serious type with heavy aura, and I'm a really awkward people, so many times people misunderstand me. But, from my past experience, sometimes, you just have to ignore the voice in your head that told you to be proper because you're afraid of what will people think about you and just be yourself. Not really be yourself, (since, really, when can we really be ourselves around other people?) but enough to make you comfortable around them and they'll also be comfortable around you.

just talk to your classmates, or the person sitting next to you. no matter how awkward, nerve-wracking, and scary it may be, or no matter how short a conversation you'll have, that's just how friendship always is from the start. then continue those maybe awkward talks, and surely and gradually, you'll become comfortable with your class/ new friends.

source: life experience (=・ω・=)

Haha ..... thanks well it look like we are in the some situation , i also pretend to do homework or copy things but well that make me feel more lonely ... by the way don't hesitate to share your worries i will try to help you too

I know what you mean i try to do that to but sadly it didn't work

Thanks for that ill try

But in the end if it doesn't work on the time the teacher is absent i bring my favorite book with me..... will that be strange or weird ?

...don't run away by using your favorite book. talk. face your fears.

but i guess it's alright if you really can't do it for the time being. but be sure you'll do!

and no, it's not really strange or weird. tbh, the best life advice i could give anyone is just do what you really want to do. and if that's what you really WANT to do, then don't give a damn about what other people think. just do what you want. you won't regret it (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Hmm it look like im really running away arent i , i will try my best , but what a perfect life advice thanks

The best (and practically only real) friend i made in school, i made because of a book.
After a year of not really even talking to that girl i ended up sitting next to her, (the whole class was shuffling seats every other day). She was reading Game of Thrones between classes, and i had just finished that book (i listened to the audio book, so she never saw me reading)
That day went pretty much like this "Oh! You're reading Game of Thrones" *talk talk talk talk* bam! end of school. We didn't even pay attention to classes, we just talked the whole day about the book xD
I must mention that we had totally different personalities, she was the cool type, friendly with everyone and me a hopeless introvert. But the book "broke the ice" like a sledgehammer (≧∀≦)
The only advice i can give, strike a conversation of smth you enjoy, and find someone who shares that interest (maybe not the yaoi tho xD, not everyone can take that).
Smth like a movie, a book, youtubers, actors, nailpolish maybe xD
Or try to trow yourself into a conversation, once you recognize a subject you know about. Something sciencey, like global warming, or animals, space, or gossiping about famous ppl, that is supposed to work, but i never managed
to do it :P

If i could talk to everyone about yaoi i wouldnt be able to close my mouth , hahah thanks for that

Hi there! I had similar ploblems myself. In uni i started reading lots of psychological and self improvement books that helped me to change a lot the way I was feeling about people and perciving them. Its still not perfect but its different now:), if you really want you can change the way you percive the wolrd and people, and how you interact with them. Get rid of social fears and feelings of being separated ;) its your choice to make! I keep my gingers crossed for you!

I see maybe i should try to read a few books , thanks for the cheers

so um should i write this? Ah whatever i'll write this anyway..
first of all i hate people who talk in class, in my class there are some that don't put their phones down, and just text text and don't pay attention to the teacher and there are some that just chit chat with each other i just hate it, if you're here to text and talk why are you coming in school, you go to school because you want to learn something that'll benefit me and you.
I also am bad at making friends and i'm quite shy plus i'm picky about my friends, i don't consider everyone my friend.
If you want to be friends with someone just say hi, or wattsup, talk about something that is mutual about both of you, try helping them when they are in trouble, try saying hi every time you see them, if you are way too shy you must be brave what can i say you shouldn't be afraid of failure

Of course im going there to learn and not play , ahhhh but that not the point anyway as you say im afraid of failure and reject and at the worse im shy too so it hard to make friend but well i guess i should brave too and try my best

Hmmm.....are you trying to help me or make worse ?

I think you should try to have little conversation with people around you,y'know its really important because talking is something you have to do all your life....
Even if it is difficult...just try your best...

Yeah i know that thanks

i was talking about you classmates hahaha(≧∀≦)

Well... I can recommend you some points to start... I like working with this method called "Theta Healing" - its helping in reprogramming subconsciousnes rather quickly... but its quite expensive to learn or to have a session. Another one is working with affirmations, good starting site is http://www.louisehay.com/affirmations/. I recommend reading one of Louise Hay books for starters, to understand whats its all about.

Totally the same here when school started all my friends had different classes than me and lunch I only had 2 classes with friends, I was so lonely and I don't know how to make friends or what to talk to people other than my friends about. Cause I'm a really shy person so unless I know someone pretty well I can't really openly joke with them or talk with them.

The same thing happened to me recently as well. I had to start a new school and I only came with one of my very close friends so I didn't know anyone else (except a few people who I used to go to school with when i was like in second grade). It was quite awkward the second week (the first week the school goes to a camp) since I didn't know anybody in my classes except my friend who was in my first period, but by the third or fourth week I came to realize that if you just gave it bit of time and sit next to someone you feel even a tiny bit comfortable with (in my case it was a girl or 2 a talked to once or twice) and maybe try to strike up a conversation about the work, or if you see them doing anything you're interested in. maybe you'll even be put it a group assignment (depending what class) and you'll make some friends that way.

Im still in my first week so i have to give it much time

When that happen i will listen to you

Thanks

Yeah i was talking about them too (⌒▽⌒)

Right like me , in my case it the same half the class are people from my pervious years that should be a good thing but sadly it no because i wasnt really close with them

Is there anyone new? Because if so maybe you can try talking to them

sadly , no

Anyone who's not talking to anybody? or anyone who usually sits alone or something?

Umm i think there is one

Well thats a straw isn't it?

*start

I guess you can say that

Sorry the wrong one
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kami_sama_no_iutoori_moegi_yuu/mf/v01/c005/3/

Unfortunately, it's a cover for a novel : http://myfigurecollection.net/item/278774

I see thanks

I thought of this one
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tsuki_ni_hoero/tr/98823/page/116/

Omg thanks it this one

You're welcome ^^

Your link shows correct cover for this manga. That's Kanata and Onda on the cover. They just look a little different in color.

Ugh.... But im sure there is another manga with the same characters of this manga

Sorry! Just looked it up and saw this manga is a series of one-shots. I don't know if any of the other stories are available yet, but here are all the titles:

1) Mellow na Boogie ni shitekure
2) Lyrical Ghost Story
3) White Snow Prince
4) Mamotte Darling
5) Strawberry Life
6) Blackberry Time
7) Cynical Ghost Story

And when i look closelly i really don't think they are the characters because kanata look very different

Only the one-shot from Ch. 2 (Lyrical Ghost Story) has been uploaded. The characters on front must be from one of the other stories then.

Thanks , but the story i read wasn't oneshot

Very very muscular and usually hairy men.

Bara is (usually) made by men for other gay men. The characters are usually really muscular, and I guess they portray gays more realistically than what girls read (tho that's not always true)

Bara is demographic just like yaoi. It's BL.
Made by male author / mangaka with aiming real gay readers. It has more realistic drawing of men. Muscular, well build, handsome / hot guys. But there are also bara that presenting more realistic drawing like not very handsome main character, very hairy man, fat man etc.
While yaoi is focusing it's drawing style with pretty boys. Slim body, big eyes, cute boys.
Basically, it's all BL but the differences is the just the drawing style. For story, it depend on how the mangaka want to make it.

thank you i finally know what it mean

Sorry, I'm confused. The cover in which page you wanna find out?

Sorry for not making ir clear , it's this page http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/strawberry_life/tr/41801/page/4/ Page 4

Could it be one of those?
I didn't know the author but by looking for her I saw those covers and thought that maybe one would fit:
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=25694
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=11648
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=20881
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=11649 (I put this one just because of the school uniform)

Tell me if it's no good, I can try looking for more

HANAFUBUKI Sakurako is another pen name of Hanasaki Sakurako.
There're only 2 of her works translated.
- http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/zurui_otoko/
- http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/strawberry_life/ - Multiple stories, but only Ch.1 translated.
If it's not in the above 2. Could it be that you read the other stories in raw version?

Sorry to trouble you but it no good it not one of these , but if you didn't find it after long search you can forget about it , thanks

Thanks for the search , but i'm pretty sure i read it in english version

Sorry that was the wrong one the right one is this http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koishii_akuma/tr/160611/page/5/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tatsu_no_otoshigo/

Thank you (⌒▽⌒)

you`re welcome^^

super lovers,who is written by the same person

The main couple as a similar feeling to the ones from Komatta: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/saiyaku_wa_boku_o_suki_sugiru/

Thanks for help