This is what you call a perfect rom-com manhwa. Yes, sometimes it can get pretty cheesy and cringe, but ykw that's what makes this manhwa very hilarious. The romance: splendid, the comedy: superb, and don't get me started on the smut too... bc this has one of the steamiest, freakiest, hottest smut scene in the entirety of yaoiლ(´ڡ`ლ)
I know Jaehyuk's intention is good and that he's brave and wanted to be proud of their relationship, but the way he thinks was just shallow. Garam was right to be mad, queer relationship is still very taboo there and if your partner want to hide your relationship, then you should respect it, not casually outing your relationship just like that. But again, their communication was just very bad and Garam shouldn't just suddenly moving out like that... ( ̄へ ̄)
Like I said, this is a queer relationship, not some ordinary straight relationships who are more accepted in society. And I know this is just fiction, but even in this story we can see people are not that accepting to gay relationship, like Jaehyuk's parents and Garam's past. And remember Jaehyuk before? How he was a homophobes and how much of an asshole he was when he learned that Garam is gay? Garam has a solid reason to hide their relationship. Sure, they can act nonchalant to people's reaction, but who knows what comes to them when people finds out they are gay. There's a reason why a bunch of queer people still find it hard to come out. And if Jaehyuk really wants to out their relationship, then shouldn't he ask Garam first if he's okay with it?
I’ve been in queer relationships all my life, that doesn’t justify the way garam is moving rn. I understand not wanting to out your relationship, but garam doesn’t want jaehyuk to come out AT ALL. he’s attempted to tell his friends multiple times that he’s dating a man writhing specifically saying the man is garam, yet garam keeps preventing bf him from doing so. Garam shouldn’t decide when jaehyuk tells people that he’s dating a man. He clearly isn’t okay with their relationship being closed, and garam isn’t okay with it being open. So realistically they just shouldn’t be together.
And this why i said their communication was just so bad. They just keep doing things on their own without talking it to the other first and just jump into conclusion themself, this is their main problem. If they actually communicate, they can settle together if they want their relationship to be closed or open. In my opinion, they just both at fault here, no one is more right and no one is more wrong. The problem came from both of them.







The talk about being gay and quitting being gay is so soo stupid(T△T) Does BL authors doesn't know bi & pansexuality exist??!
i think it’s to show that jaehyuk doesn’t know about homosexuality/the struggles of gay men (garam). Someone who is bi have the privilege to decide if they want to pursue the same or opposite gender, but gay men do not have the same privilege. he was portrayed as homophobic at the start so it would make sense for him to not be educated about it. Him acting like that still implies that he doesn’t get how Garam feels
That‘s not Garam’s point, in Korea they all get included with gay people and there are absolutely no anti-discrimination laws against gay people.
It’s kinda annoying how most readers don’t know this and just say stupid unintelligible stuff to show how stupid they are…
The thing is... even the way Garam thinking is also like Jaehyuk(´_ゝ`). Like in the chap 106, Garam said "If he hadn't met me, he never would have gone gay..." like? Can't they just acknowledge that Jaehyuk probably bi from the beginning? Why Garam has to be responsible for Jaehyuk's sexuality when he's probably just a bisexual man?
It got me thinking maybe the one who's uneducated is the author themself.... ( ̄へ ̄). And not only this manhwa, I've seen some other BLs with this same scenario of "I'm straight as a pole and I've love women my entire life, there's no way I am gay, but only this one boy could turn me gay". Like these authors only knows the term of "gay" and "straight" and nothing in between ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭