Does s*x actually feel good?
it depends a lot on what type of sex you're having and who you and ur partner are. it should feel good tho, that's important, but sometimes it can feel uncomfortable if you're not prepared enough, maybe even hurt (especially with anal, SPIT IS NOT ENOUGH!!! use lube!!!! no matter what gender u are!!). It's different for everyone tho, a good partner can sometimes be the most important factor, but some ppl just have bodies that have a harder time doing penetrative sex in general.
If what turns him on is guilt then then normal sex is not gonna satisfy him in the long run they're most likely gonna be like an ntr couple