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88% Vanilla (but i've had anal mult times in my life (bled from anal TWICE even with lube which is why i find all the monster cocks-no-blood BLs wildly unrealistic, once had anal for an hour on my bday til i began to shit), have sucked cock while he was pooping, have sucked him off while he was driving, got cau...... reply
If u want an answer that doesn't involve potential birth defects in children, then incest is abuse. People who say "is incest actually bad?" are so dense and their brains have been rotted by porn lol. 90% of incest isn't like their favourite yaoi where two adult men get a little bit handsy! It's actually fathers raping their daughters and "boy moms...... 3 reply
Because historically it's just discouraged to mix within households. Genetic defects etc, there's also the issue of moral boundaries when it comes to relationships within a family structure, because you know it is a symbolic family even if not related by blood. It's similar to the difference between work life and a personal life. A family is a unit...... reply
It's wrong bc inbreeding causes health issues. We're fine with inbreeding animals though. In a large-scale study, it was found that purebred dogs were all as genetically similar as siblings....... GROSS. But even knowing this, purebred elitists will still come up with excuses for why it's okay to keep inbreeding.
Also, mixed breeds live longer on...... 1 reply
Incest is not bad because of possibility of deformed children, it's bad because it only happens as a result of abuse or lack of information about boundaries. If people are partaking in incest theres likely a power imbalance and if not then they have been neglected / abused in some way. This hypothetical where "2 twins of same sex just want to do it...... reply
it's usually a cultural thing; some cultures hate it, some promote it. in my opinion, it's bad cuz of inbreeding depression and likelihood of disguised abuse. you can google 'whitaker family of west virginia' for the medical reason of incest being considered as a bad idea.
there's a lot of psychological problems involved too, but they're hella subj...... 1 reply
I’ve thought about this before actually, and I’ve come to the conclusion that it really depends on the person. I’d say most people see romantic love and familial love as two separate things, but I suppose some people don’t really have that distinction. According to nature, the only reason why two people would have a sexual relationship is t...... reply
I was asked this question by one of my friends. As put off as I was, I was also left thinking: why exactly? Obviously, if two biologically related people decide to reproduce, chances are that their children will have some kind of physical deformity or mental disability. However, why is the case of adopted siblings, or two sisters? why are our brains wired to be repulsed at the mere thought of a relationship between siblings? And I would like to state that I 1000% disagree with incest in any, any, context.
Hmmm I’m not sure. I’d say feel it out first or you can be straight forward and ask how they view you that way you’ll know how to proceed from there. reply
Not that anyone is following lol. I posted a little while back about my experience confessing to my crush 2-3 years ago, getting rejected, becoming friends, and then realizing things were still kinda weird between us. We've only hung out in group settings before, as I'm closer to his roommates than to him. Since my last post, things have been mostly back to normal (as normal as it gets for us), except that we're more comfortable addressing each other and asking each other questions (still in group settings). I thought that since he's graduating in a few months, I might as well bite the bullet and ask him to hang out just the two of us. He said yes! He seemed pretty excited (as much as one can over text), despite being busy and having exams. My question is how can I vibe check how he feels about me or hint about my own feelings? Should I even bring it up? I thought this could be a good time because we're about to go on spring break and I could have *recovery time* lol. Also ideas of what I could do for this ambiguously friendly hangout haha...