I am. Back in high school, I don't fit in into any of their social group that I became an outcast. I sometimes blame myself and my social anxiety for ending up like that. But now, I could say I am quite brave enough to fake my bravery to talk to people um I mean like I-I kind of fake it till I finally become comfortable with talking aND choosing th...... reply
I can't say am exactly a loner, because I talk to some people and hang out with some, too. However, I mostly eat alone or spend my break reading a manga or sitting all alone. The reason for that is because I have a bit of social anxiety. If I get too close to anybody, I start questioning and doubting my friendship with them, or I feel insecure abou...... reply
Everybody pretty much gave you the the right answer but the one thing that stood out to me was "They are always talking about how being an adult means you always end up having sex with your crushes." I don't mean to offend you but that was really dumb. That's something that a child or teenager would think or say. When it comes to being an adult in ...... 2 reply
ma gosh do i feel you. also 21 bi and yup virgin ...in no way can i give u advice , just my pov x)
i feel weird thinking how well i have 'sold' the idea that i'm not a virgin to my friends...i tried ( still am) to avoid getting mixed up with ppl within my circles or go about joking how i 'starfish in bed' ...
bout the technical part there won't be...... 1 reply
I totaly understand you.
I also love bondage, I love that feeling of being helpless, controlled, being used. And after I started doing BDSM frequently since a few years, I can´t imagine a life without it.
There was a cute guy who somehow confessed, and if I would have been a normal girl, I would been gladly dating him. But he is really romantic. A...... 2 reply
I understand that you are insecure about being a virgin and here on some of my thoughts.
1. If you are talking about sex on the premise of a relationship:
It's not just aobut sex. If the two of you share mutual understanding, feelings, and can communicate with each other well - then don't sweat, it'll work out.
I don't think it should matter if ...... 2 reply
