I think it's a matter that you survey group might not have a lot of experience or dominant personalities.
I could see myself topping. But I am very comfortable with sex, have lots of experience and a somewhat dominant personality. I always iniate with my partner and I have a higher sex drive. If I was a uke I would be a queen uke. 1 reply
i choose and prefer being an uke because i am not a dominant person at all. i can't imagine myself pinning my lover to the ground. i don't see myself being the leader in a relationship at all.
plus, i've already tried being a seme, and to me, it was disgusting. i felt extremely uncomfortable. 2 reply
I for one is a girl and know many other girls, but I am unable to answer your question. Why?
Well actually, I saw many girls on this website who answered "What are you the top or bottom?" questions chose to be a seme or seke, so... I don't see your point on why a lot of girls pick to be a uke, maybe some do but don't like answering those questions,...... 1 reply