I'm still a virgin because nobody have approached me for that and well, even if there are, I'll most likely reject them; I'm one of those people that want to lose their virginity only to the person they're truly in love with and have plan to stay together to marriage, losing one's virginity will only happen once in a lifetime, so it's special/sacre...... 3 reply
I’ve had a boyfriend for close to seven years now and we are still in high school. I guess I’m just that kind of girl that gets slapped with a “you’re so innocent!” all the time which is just because of the way I was raised by, for the most part, elderly people and was more mature than people my own age and so I’m awkward af around peo...... 2 reply
I was diagnosed with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) since college, and I have abandonment issues. I don't believe in marriage but sometimes I believe my dream is to have a nice family, I love my fiancee but being attached to one man scares me. What if I'm a terrible wife, what if I don't love him. Things can go from hate to love to hate for me with him. Sex is more of a chore for me than joy but I was assaulted when I was young so that may be a factor. My wedding is around 6 months from now and to this day I still don't know if I love him or is he just the easy way, so I don't have to be alone.
I'm 20 and I planned to stay being a virgin, unmarried for as long as I live. I have trust issues and I doubt I'll ever find a man that I can trust. 1 reply
I'm not sure if this counts as rape or not, but I was around 6-7 when it happened. My mom, Aunt and I would always visit a close family friend. There was a husband who had a child and I remember him telling me to get in the room so I can massage his back (Or whatever). So, when I got in the room, I regretted it a lot. He whispered in my ear to not ...... 1 reply
I think it's better to save for marriage, just in case of a baby comes up, and I had a bad trauma about sex but it's reallt up to u and ur beliefs or comfort really. I waited until I was 22 and with my fiancee because it was more comfortable for me and I'm not really the type that wants to... taste all the fish in the sea (tbh I think sex can be qu...... 1 reply
You are not alone and there are people who understand what you are feeling. I have been called mentally unstable and crazy from my own mother but I know she was trying to cope with the fact it was some one very close to her and when I trusted her enough with my pain I didn't get the outcome I wanted. ( him being reveled and gone to jail.) I began ...... 1 reply
