Lately, I've just been reliving happy memories and realizing I'm never going to experience those things again. Like memories of hanging out with my friends and knowing that even in that moment I was thinking about how I would be sad looking back at it. I know that's a pessimistic way of looking at it, but it really is just sad for me. Next year, I'...... reply
Im so confused, I have everything planned out already but something is missing. I don’t know, my life been joyful lately yet I couldn’t stop attempting. I would hang myself and let go after a few moments, I still find myself wanting to live. Even so I kept doing it anyway, does it even count as self harm or am I just doing it out of curiosity 4 reply
Just decide everything for yourself, set your own rules/standards for good or bad, chill your life and don’t do things you think you will regret. (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜 1 reply
I'm always thinking in a contradictory way. Am I proud of myself or do I just really think I suck ? Am I wasting my time reading yaoi or is society excepting me to give more of my time to work ? Do I have dreams and passions or am I just living life with no real goal ? Is that a good or a bad thing to have no goal ? What's my goal exactly ? How does one find a goal ? Were we just all born with a goal ? How is it defined then ? Why does everyone around me have a goal, and why do I find most things useless ? Can this be fixed ?
Am I good or bad ? How do I know if I do good or bad ?
Figuring out what to do in life- well, I have passions but none of them make money or just would be really shitty to do so, I'm pretty fucked in that regard tbh. I think if I were to pursue a career I would look at something I wouldn't mind doing that also makes a decent living wage. Google bright outlook occupations, those are jobs and careers tha...... reply
If there is one thing I can tell you with absolute surety is that no one is good at everything and anything. Something has to give. They could look like god's latest dropship but have deadly farts. Most of us try to grow as we go.
grow along, even if it's at your own pace. And if you find yourself trying to measure up to a certain arbitrary standa...... reply
i'm not good at anything, good looking, or sociable so massive grain of salt BUT i feel like ppl good at "everything" have learned a strong mindset over time along with diverse experiences;;
like ppl who stick with instrument lessons + group sports for many years tend to be the ppl who end up successful in loads of stuff bc they've learned coach...... reply