i choose my friends, like the people who i want to be closed with. back in 9th and 10th grade, we had a group (6 ppl including me). theres this girl (lets call her nise), nise is kind. us 6 actually lasted for a year. in 10th gr, nise decided to hangout with other ppl in the class. we did not told her "go to other groups" and blabla. she decided to...... 1 reply
Girl/Bro drop/distance yourself from her. Find new friends or get aquatinted with other people if your group of friends drops you too. Ik its gonna be hard but its better than having to put up with a trashcan like her. Maybe before dropping her explain it to your ‘friends’ first but if they still stan that btch after, they def deserve to be dro...... reply
Red flags that I've already encountered.
1. I think it is called dark empath, might be wrong. They will love to help you but they wanted you to do something in exchange and if you didn't, they will guilt trip you. Ex, treating you to eat then afterwards will ask you to make their whole ass project. Bruh, it's a thick ass protfolio about your own ...... 1 reply
When they bring up issues with you passive aggressively but never directly to communicate with you about it.
When they care more about being right in the conflict rather than the wellbeing of the friendship.
When they’re grudge against you is only made known through hinted verbal attacks at your insecurities & vulnerabilities.
When they need y...... reply