i see this topic brought up especially in younger people but just remember that if there's something your friend is doing that you don't like, if you want to keep that person as your friend then you hold some responsibility in telling them what they're doing is counterproductive to your relationship with them. Otherwise you'll just make yourself su...... 2 reply
When they are constantly being dismissive of your personal interests and couldn't give a shit about your success but then bitch and moan when you don't devote your attention to them in the same way. reply
Not listening to them. Constantly making their problems about you. Not supporting them. Belittling them or their interests. Not showing gratitude for their efforts. Not initiating outings or just plain conversations. Small details to show that you care.
Honestly these are things you pick up from others the more time you spend with them. And confro...... reply
when someone asks me question abt smth experience blah blah* and then right after i answer them, they start talking about themselves like a straight up essay
*they wanted someone to ask that question but yk how it is... NOBODY ASKED 2 reply
i've had toxic friends, and i was definitely one myself.
(i'm a changed person now dont attack me heh) i remember threatening my friends to kms if they cut me off, which i realize now was super fucked up, but they did it cause they knew it'd be better for both of us in the end. we were always fighting, and constantly hurting each other. im so hap...... 2 reply
I had a friend who I've known since 2/3rd grade. We didn't get super close till 6th grade when we literally had all classes together. She and my other friend didn't get along so when that other friend left me I was really left with only one friend. She just stopped talking to me for the rest of middle school but I guess I never really cared. It was...... reply
I have an encounter a little less extremes than this so I guess I can relate and I’ll say this, you have to drop here, sooner or later you’ll get fed up or she’ll drop you. She won’t change for better any time soon. If she ever decides to talk about how rude you are being to her to people, you should tell those people personally and let the...... reply
You should drop her since she isn't a good influence. Though she might have reasons for doing this but she isn't opening up about it, which she doesn't have to. But it's safer to drop her and have her talk behind your back because you're doing this for your own good. To me she sounds very insecure because she's trying to cover up the bad things she...... 1 reply
You probably should, those are the type of people you avoid getting into drama with. Be careful about how you dump her though, make sure that the way you do it makes her unable to to lash back at you. She'll probably spread rumors about you or do something to you so look out for yourself. reply
