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Well said! I agree completely. I think a lot of gay/bi men tend to jump to writing yaoi off completely, which is fair, but personally I think it's honestly better that we speak up, voice our complaints, and try to shift the genre into a better direction. I don't really know what reaction I expected from this site's userbase, tbh. Fujos are pretty......   1 reply
18 10,2020
itsme_ 18 10,2020
as soon as i saw this question i knew i would see cestelle there spitting facts as usual but in all seriousness i mean its good that people are talking about the problematic shit of yaoi because they're bringing it into light and telling people what they're doing is wrong so i feel like this question wasnt needed   reply
18 10,2020
UUI
18 10,2020
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18 10,2020
a fujo i know irl expected me to act like a gay person in bl and im confused did she expect me to want to be raped and shit bl is different from real life bl is made by straight females as entertainment for other straight females it is in no way usually realistic there isnt always a feminine bottom and masculine top stop trying to think that ......   2 reply
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Moon 18 10,2020
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18 10,2020
I'm just gonna   reply
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Cestelle
18 10,2020
Uh, no. All this "it's just a difference of opinions" shit is why barely anything ever fucking changes. If someone's opinions and standards are harmful then they can take their bullshit and shove it up their ass. I don't give two shits if they think their takes are fine, *of course* they would think that. Like, there are legit people on this sit......   1 reply
18 10,2020
LovelyD
18 10,2020
My point exactly. It’s so obvious that neither side is listening to the other so what’s the point of arguing. Y’all are acting like y’all are really trying to accomplish some good by arguing with people on this site. If you really want to make a difference then spread awareness on sites that actually matter. Donate to places that support yo......   reply
18 10,2020
adilene
18 10,2020
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18 10,2020
Irene
18 10,2020
There will be people who will talk about the problematic aspects of yaoi, others will simply avoid them, some people just don't give af. People with different moral standards will fight each other and rip each others heads off, some will contemplate their decision to read yaoi, while others will simply keep on reading. When there is a opinion that says, "i don't see a problem", there will be another that says,"there is a problem", no one is changing anyone's opinion. You can discuss and debate with each other to understand each other or just skewer each other, (depends on the debaters).

Instead of being triggered every damn time, just let people do whatever the fuck they want. Every community comprises of people with different opinions and standards, you just gotta accept that. Join in or just watch and observe from the sidelines, your choice. No one's going anywhere.

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18 10,2020

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