It’s completely up to you if you wanna stop reading yaoi if you dislike rape scenes I would recommend shounen ai but if you wanna quit completely that’s fine too. And second it’s ok to like yaoi and only reading yaoi for explicit scenes isnt fetishizing it but I do agree that fetishizing gay men is when you think yaoi actually portrays real g...... 1 reply
I agree with this dude on practically every ruddy count. Like, 100%.
Luv, don’t try to preach to the mob. Not-a-one will listen, because people HATE being told they’re in the wrong, because they don’t want to think about potentially correcting their behaviors.
Seriously tho ladies, for fucks sake, STOP EXCUSING RAPE. 1 reply
Okay so a couple things here:
If someone doesn't do the things that people on this site get called out for all the time, they're the exception, not the rule. Most people here exhibit at least one or two of the, shall we say "problem behaviors".
If a lot of mlm people say that yaoi fetishizes them, and someone "100% supports the lgbt community", I...... 1 reply
I understand how depictions of people in the media and fiction can create unconscious bias in people. Black people have literally been dealing with this forever. So I'd imagine it would not be that much different for LGBT. 3 reply
No. Fetishising it would be obsessing over the relationships and just enjoying seeing two guys dating whatever. If you’re a straight cis girl of fucking course you’re gonna wanna watch two guys fuck. Dumb ass. Smh 4 reply
Yoo bro, i never imagine i would enjoy yaoi this much..
I started read yaoi becuz tired with girls character that act over to much cute or moe moe something like that.
If you feel read yaoi is to much, then just read shounen ai and enjoy the story line without seeing adult scenes(▰˘◡˘▰).
I dont think that people read yaoi is sick, its just ...... 2 reply
I've honestly seen this same question written basically five different times. No, you're not a bad person for reading yaoi. Just like a gay person reading straight porn- he/she isn't fetishizing them. As long as you keep fantasy and fiction far away from reality, you're fine.
Also, why are you listening to some assholes on tiktok? I don't even us...... 1 reply
i kind of really do not understand how straight ppl have read this and still fail to understand what the purpose of the original post was. i don't say this to be mean, but i sincerely believe that several of you need to work on reading comprehension.
to begin with, a lot of you are acting as though: 1) this post is making an attack on you personal...... 2 reply