I be honest i just skip some of your comment coz to lazy to read all of it. its okay if you dont read this i dont really care hahah but here what i tell ya. Some poeple have their own mind to express what they read. Just let them be it wont change anything if you clear the fact of it. Some stubborn about it or they didnt really care coz its only "f...... 1 reply
The reasons i like yaoi... personally i enjoy reading shounen ai more than yaoi . Sexual don't really sit well for me and i find it weird. Shoujo manga are not that bad but the Female Lead made it hard for me to read. Some of them are just dumb in my opinion. To me, people in a relationship should be equal and BL just fit the bill. What matter mos...... 1 reply
an example of fetishizing a gay relationship is shipping two characters together mostly because its gay. for example, people who ship sangwoo x yoonbum probably wouldnt ship it if yoonbum was a girl instead of a guy.
acting super excited when you see gay people in real life and treating differently or putting them on a pedestal is fetishizing.
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Im not in a relationship whatsoever but I oftentimes feel that w/ my friends or just someone Im close to so I shut myself down from socializing for a while. reply
I'm an awkward person who can't express whatever i'm feeling to someone and since I've also been a fan of idols for a long time now I'm quite fine with one-sided attraction and that's probably the reason why I'm still single since birth. There was actually time when my crush paid attention to me and started to show affection, and being the awkward ...... reply
Same here~ I thought I'm the only one and that there's something wrong with me. I've never had relationships and had only been to first dates (there are no follow up dates after). I'm socially awkward and in the middle of the date, I just lose interest. They didnt do anything wrong and I don't find anything wrong with them. It's just that the more...... reply
Omg, it's not just me! I've only been in 3 relationships and none of them lasted long (one was 7 months, but I started checking out around month 5). I started losing interest and distancing myself because I felt like they got too close but they never did anything bad. The more they clung, the more I was like "don't touch me" but I don't know why th...... 2 reply
Have anyone been in a situation when you're dating someone (because you lowkey like them ofc) and mid-way you have a hard time "breathing" (often lessen your time talking to them because you're uncomfortable for some reason) and they didn't do anything wrong to you.
I have a hard time with this problem all my life and I don't know if I'm the only one.
