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I can see were both sides are coming from. Yes it is fiction and most things depicted have not happened in real life, but fiction can in some ways affect reality. I believe you yourself decide what you want to do, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone it should be okay. But even if you think it doesn’t hurt anyone it may cause trouble for others,......   2 reply
06 07,2020
YES! It (it referring to yaoi/BL/shounen-ai) may be fictional but a lot of it's contents are actually based on reality, if people haven't noticed. There's so much reference to reality. It may be exaggerated, but it doesn't change the fact that you're actually reading a bit of what happens in reality. R/ape, se/xual as/sault, se/xual har/assment, do......   2 reply
06 07,2020
As a writer, I've reread this so many times. I apologize if it doesn't make sense.   1 reply
06 07,2020
I'm in no place to judge, no one is actually. This has nothing to do with being straight or gay ... this is personal and absolutely your call, and let me tell you this to prove that it has nothing to do with being straight ( I'm bi and I've been in love with the same gender for some time now and I've never read yaoi, yuri, shoujo/shounen ai ..it m......   reply
06 07,2020
First, I would like to add that manga is a form of entertainment that is made for people to enjoy. And that's the foreword lol.

I like to believe that the people on mangago are pretty chill. We just read manga, make a comment about it, then move on. But some take it to another level, where it seems like it's bad to read yaoi or yuri but that isn't the intention. And I would like to point out a few things about that.

- The wording
- The topic
- The aggression

No one likes being talked to as if they are in the wrong and will always be in the wrong. Most of the time people will lash out at others when talked to as such. So why word things in a way that you know or think might make others upset? And if a topic is touchy or sensitive, don't go there unless you are sure you won't hurt or get hurt. Just don't be aggressive. If you attack and attack and attack, the people reading will feel angry and maybe even oppressed. Be gentle, talk as if talking to a child, but not condescendingly.

It shouldn't be wrong to enjoy yaoi, or yuri, or just manga in general. You have the freedom to choose what to like or dislike, and you can have your own opinions about it. But why attack others about what you don't agree with?

Whew, this was long. As kind people say, "Love everyone" and "innocent until proven guilty.'' I just noticed a lot of toxic questions recently and felt that it could have been handled better. Tell me what you think? Anything to add? Anything you disagree with? I'll try to respond as objectively as possible, so don't worry.
06 07,2020
Just ignore it. If it gets too aggressive, ask if they would be okay not reading Harry Potter because it puts children in danger. Or ask if gay people shouldn't read hentai because it fetishizes straight couples. You are allowed to enjoy yaoi, even if you are a straight girl. Unless the author says otherwise, yaoi isn't made only for gay people. It......   2 reply
06 07,2020
I’m apply this same concept of media said Video game cause violent Bc it fking doesn’t So I apply this to BL Yeah bitch it’s fiction and half of what you said don’t even make sense are you on crack   1 reply
06 07,2020
AM I CRAZY? [Answer]
Tensai chuan desu
06 07,2020
For me i think of the argument i had and ill think "only if i said this i would've roasted that person" or "man i would've sounded so cool if i said that" haha maybe I'm just childish ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶   reply
06 07,2020
Black cosplayers [Answer]
Fafa 06 07,2020
I've honestly seen far more positive remarks than negative about black cosplayers (but ik the nasty comments exist because some people will always find a reason to hate on black people) But as a black woman myself and cosplayer, I've never been treated poorly or called out of my name when cosplaying and cosplay is such a fun/dream like experience t......   reply
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06 07,2020
Everyone is problematic in their own ways but tried to cover it up by judging others being problematic.   1 reply
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