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SillyDuck
05 07,2020
Do you have an opinion that you think most people don't agree with?
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05 07,2020
honesty, i think as long as you dont fetishize gay men or gay relationships you are fine. Liking yaoi isnt a crime lol so to all those people saying that its "bad" fuck off cuz yaoi is better then anything else. (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸   1 reply
05 07,2020
I’m just gonna say...as long as you don’t mix it up with real life gay relationships it should be ok and also pls stop shipping kpop idols lmao some of them have publicly stated that it made them uncomfortable. I’m pretty sure there are lots of people with different sexualities and genders reading yaoi so I don’t like the way only straight ......   reply
05 07,2020
I wanna like to answer your question when I'm at the end of my life. It's too early for me to describe my life. So far so good   reply
05 07,2020
Tin 05 07,2020
I actually had the same thought. I think my life is not that bad as of now but I always thought about dying. And yes I also thought that if my life turns bad I would end up comitting suicide. And when I rily thought about it I came up with the answer that I lack the purpose in life. Like I'm breathing but dying is also okay. Either, nothing consequ......   reply
05 07,2020
I don't know if it's "normal" but it's been my normal for more than 12 years now (I was 11 when I first felt that way and there hasn't been a day without the craving of the sweet release of death in my mind ever since). You just keep pushing through life until the day you snap finally comes. For now I just avoid heights.   1 reply
05 07,2020
I think you just wanna live. I mean there are times when I also want to die, end my life and everything on it. It's just on my mind. Although I have times like that, I don't do anything or try to do so. I feel like every time I wish to die and disappear in this world, what I really wanted is to start to live my life how I wanted it to be (although ......   1 reply
05 07,2020
Yuki
05 07,2020
That's called being a suicide addict. I too look for ways to die, but I don't actually try to. I mostly want to die out of curiosity, which is honestly kind of reckless, but who cares? If I had access to a building I could jump off of I would, but I won't go out of my way to access one. It's definitely not normal, but everyone has their abnormali......   1 reply
05 07,2020
Here's the thing, no one is denying that it's fictional. Let's get that out of the way right now. Unless that shit says "based on a true story" on the front, there's no reason to assume otherwise.

But the issue is that we have a bunch of straight girls deciding that a medium depicting gay people isn't affecting anyone. Because apparently they're the authority on the matter, and not the people depicted in said mediums.

When you say "it's just fiction, it doesn't affect reality", you don't get to make that claim that for everyone. The most you can say is it's not affecting YOUR reality, because it's literally not. At all. Which I'm more than happy for you that it's not, I really truly am. I and every other lgbt person on this site would love to say the same, believe me.

But you don't get to decide for a completely different demographic of people what does and doesn't have real-life consequences for them. That is not your place, not your call to make.

If you wanna make that claim about shoujo, or if you wanna make that claim about hentai, then by all means make that claim. Tell us your grievances and if people have any shred of decency they'll listen and try to be part of the solution. But ya'll don't do that for us, and you really need to start.

By no means am I saying you shouldn't read yaoi. But what I am saying is that ya'll need to stop trying to justify the problems when we present them to you, or claim that they aren't actually problems at all, or that we're just blowing things out of proportion, or that "yaoi is for straight people anyways". You've been shutting people down every damn time for YEARS and it cannot continue any longer.
05 07,2020
Hi! In a word, no it's not (healthy) - I won't say what is or isn't normal but it definitely isn't something we should be thinking about on the level you seem to be. As someone who has been there though, I can tell you that it takes far more courage to live on and try to get better! I wanted to talk to you because now I am a lot better I look bac......   reply
05 07,2020

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