Look I'm going to agree with a lot of others here and say, try to avoid coming out to your father for a while. I know you'd prefer to tell him yourself than him hearing it from else where, that would be the ideal way to come out. But, if you think there is a chance you'd be in danger please don't come out.
Maybe talk to your mom first. ask her ho...... reply
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In my opinion, DON'T COME OUT YET. Wait and see. Your dad is really homophobic, he might do something to harm you like beat you up or what. Observe the situation, idk how but if u can indirectly ask him "what'd he do if he had a son/daughter who is gay" kind of question (btw dont make it obvious its about you,...... reply
Thanks for sharing your story. I think wait until the good time is my suggestion. I mean if you have homophobic parents, it's so hard for coming out now. So just wait. Wait until you can live yourself and prove to them that whatever your sexuality won't affect your success, your grades or your whole life.
I am lesbian too and I live with my extream...... reply
I'm bi and still not out yet. I was planning to. I remember joking to ny dad what if I'm a guy and gay and he casually said he'll beat me up. That scares me, so I still not out yet. My plan is I will once I'm out of the house or I have my own job so he can't do anything but to accept it.
So what I meant maybe come out when they can't control you n...... 1 reply
I accidently discovered Ten Count and wondered what it revolved around. The more i got interested in the plot the more I found myself relating to it. The whole idea of the MC being mysophobic and getting over it with the SC made it so that I would never drop it despite it being BL. So then here I am....2 years later.. a closeted BL lover ╮(￣�...... reply
My only advice would be to not rush into anything, not other-think it.
I didn't catch how old you are - But I'm sure you are quite young! Are you in a position to get a girlfriend *right now? Do you need to declare your sexuality in official terms to everyone *right now? To put an official name on how you feel and who you are - *right now?
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Personally i'm bisexual and i definitely will NOT come out to my father before i'm financially independent because as long as I'm still a student there so much I can lose not only my father but also my future if he decide that he doesn't want a daughter like this and that he won't support me anymore. But on the other side I understand the feeling o...... reply
you know, sometimes the best choice is to not come out at all (especially if you're not coming out for self preservation, in some cases it can be very dangerous). I havent come out to my parents because i know exactly how it's gonna go (aka very bad lmao)
it depends on your personality in the end, some people really feel the need to come out to the...... 1 reply
Sexuality doesn't matter at all in my family since my aunt basically did all the work for me as a fellow lesbian so I'm not really able to understand your situation and feelings but i am sure that it doesn't matter HOW you come to your father - the result will pretty much be the same either way :')
I mostly agree with the two other answers, my fam...... 1 reply
Maybe don't...? If you think it'll end badly then just don't tell him. It doesn't hurt to ask your mother if you think that she might have some insight about it. You don't have to come out if it will make things worse 1 reply
