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This is a genuine question from a bisexual person.

Context: I am a bisexual person and I have been for 5 years. I had help from some LGBTQ friends + people about my identity. I would say that I am rather skeptic about information on the Internet and social media, because of the rampant misinformation. Hence, I rely on the LGBTQ friends that I have. For years I have known that bisexuals means "being attracted to two genders." These were statements also said by all of my LGBTQ friends. Two weeks ago, I saw an Insta post that shows the difference between pansexual and bisexual. For bisexual, it said: "being attracted to two or more genders." Honestly, I don't understand and I need some help.

The prefix bi is a latin word that means "two, twice". Some words that have the bi as a prefix strictly mean "two." For example:
Biped=two feet, Biweekly=twice a week, bilingual= speaking two languages

Does that mean there are only two genders that exist? Of course not. That is why some people identify as pansexual. The prefix "pan" in pansexual is a greek word that means "all, of everything, involving all members".

A question of mine is that is there another word to describe people being attracted to numerous genders with certain exclusions? If there is a word for it, why do people apply that on bisexual? Is there a legitimate argument that can clarify this that is not "the prefix has changed overtime". I cannot understand why people would say this statement, because if the word "bi" (as in the prefix, not sexuality) has changed overtime, people would be saying that a bilingual person knows two or more languages or that biped has two or more feet. From an objective perspective, it doesn't make sense to change the meaning of the prefix for one word and not change the rest.

P.S This is not meant to hurt anyone. I am just really confused. Over the last couple of years, defining sexualities has become extremely confusing to the point that, for me, it is hard wether to know the information I consume is true or not. From the debate on gender dysphoria to gender fluidity, I am having a hard time catching up on all of it compared to people my age or younger.

Also, I apologize if I made any grammar or syntax mistakes.
09 02,2021
Isn't the same as straight men liking lesbian porn? I think it's because they like men. However I'm not straight.   reply
23 01,2021
All the answers to this question make me so uncomfortable, how are you guys so comfortable fetishizing gay men.   reply
23 01,2021
Because straight sex scene sucks. I read to many bad YA romance and each time i kept criticize the sex scenes (is basically just porn in words = FAKE) but when is to guys i dont know how it feel and even if i kinda know its a little fake i cant get annoyed because i dont have a dick so i dont know how it feel.   reply
23 01,2021
I dunno, depends on the person ig? Is the plot good or not? Are you just reading it cause hot, sexy, man? I don't fucking know just be respectful, I literally don't care as long as it doesn't effect your moral system to the point you cannot distinguish fiction from reality, and right from wrong. Eyes on your own book.   reply
16 01,2021
Lmao, fujos WISH they had a "scientific reason" to hide behind. ----- Bruh of course this shit's coming back... some of y'all really need to google "Scientific" 'cause clearly it doesn't mean what you think it does.   1 reply
16 01,2021
I don't really think so? I just read what I want to read and I like seeing happy couples :D that and a lot of straight mangas usually have women being portrayed as either sluty and always needing a man with them, stupid and needing a man to do everything for them, or weak and pitiful always needing a man to protect them it's very rare for both to b......   reply
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MissV 16 01,2021
I'm Bi, hetero leaning, although I feel less like that nowadays. Perhaps I am moving toward the 50/50 range, where I could fall for either, but will probably end up with a man because of culture   1 reply
16 01,2021
I honestly think as someone who consumes yaoi that is bi, yes heterosexual people should. You shouldn't see someone who writes something by there sexuality but there content. There is a lot of yaoi/yuri out there that people do read, including me, that are probably not gay or lesbian. Yaoi is also mostly read and written by woman because woman like......   reply
16 01,2021
you don’t choose your sexuality, so i think that as long as the author and illustrator aren’t going over certain limits (we all know what they are), then it’s fine. - a heterosexual female :)   reply
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