Look, I unerstand where you're coming from but, from your logic, as woman, I'm not qualified to write a male character. I'm cis, so I can't write a trans character. I'm white, so I can't write a character of a different ethnicity. That's wrong too. I think we need to do reasearch in order to be inclusive, in order it to do real representation and n...... 1 reply
As someone who is pan i don't necessarily see it as a problem, and the fact that what's wrong with heterosexual people writing homosexual relationships? or vice versa? And it's not fetishization. According to me fetishizing something would be if u can't perform sexually without that thing being present during sexual act, and i don't think people wh...... reply
This is all just my personal opinion.
I think there is no problem with writing, but in portraying of relationships and characters. There is a rule in writing - the more you research subject, the better your work will be in realistic portrayal. Because everyone has different experience and perspective of sexual relations we cannot just throw all opp...... reply
im the same as you, i just label myself as bi-ace or pan-ace, im not sure hwat yours might be but tbh, i dont really use these labels, i mean you can just not use labels right? just be yourself, you are labeled as yourself cuz thats who you are
there are still aces that like porn but dont want to have sex and i have been in your place b4, confused...... reply
Cultural Appropriation? You must be kidding. If you're looking for that, then read some damn articles about it instead of some 7.3 rating yaoi smut and then start complaining why it isn't similar.
Okay, now you're telling us that we must only read the one respectable and that we're just fetishizing. No sht way sherlock. Ever read some shoujo like ...... reply
sigh i see this type of shit every day. Why should it matter what gender or sexuality someone is when it comes to fiction or freaking porn?? Gatekeeping media for something as stupid is that is never a good thing, it just sort of smells like entitlement to me? 'You can't like/consume this content because you're straight' if that's the case it has t...... reply
This is kinda the same thing when people from the LGBTQ+ community think it's their birth right to insult straight people & call them terms like 'breeders' or say stuff like 'being gay is just elite' but would cancel me if i'd say 'being straight is just elite' lol. I know this is a completely different matter but I'm just putting it here so peop...... 2 reply
First - I'm a mixed race person as well and respect everything you had to say. Perhaps because our backgrounds are similar, though not the exact same. I am comprised of somewhat different races than you, but if anything, feel just as aware of the irrationality of judging any single race to be superior. Certain people look at me and see one race and...... 2 reply
