Labels suck. Sexuality is a fluid thing for many people, so you really shouldn't let yourself feel pressured to put a label on it.
If you must label yourself, maybe you are asexual, or maybe demisexual.. so you won't feel sexually attracted until you have feelings for someone, regardless of gender.
Personally, I dislike labels, because I disli...... 1 reply
uhhhh how old are you dude?? don’t rush to put a label on yourself if you’re still in the early stages and try not to feel pressured by others. you do you reply
Am I asexual??? I'm attracted to both women and men but not sexually, like I've never been sexually attracted to anythingfggd. I watch porn (god knows yy) and i always see ppl saying they jerk off to that shit or they get wet, but to me, I cant see myself being sexually aroused like that, and frankly find it smth unworldy○•○. I have friends that are bi, non-binary, etc so not kowing my sexuality gives me midnight crisis all the timee. I mean if i am asexual, i wave the liquorice flag with all prideeee
For me, it was a struggle to figure out my sexuality because I am ok with sexual activities with both men and women due to sexual abuse I suffered when I was younger by both male and female perpetrators. It wasn’t until I was older that I figured out that it’s not about whether or not I minded the sexual activities as much as it was wanting to ...... reply
honestly sexuality isn't something fixed.. who or what arouses you and who or what you are attracted too will change alot. Learn as you go and grow from there reply
I think I'm a bisexual???? I really don't mind dating women or men. I had a relationship with a guy before but right now I think that I'll be dating a girl in the future because I am more attracted to women than men. Sooooo what am I????
Interesting perspective, throwing the "cultural appropriation" comment aside which I'm pretty sure was more that you couldn't express what you meant well, I do partially agree with what you are saying.
Yaoi and yuri many times fetishize gay relationships and don't really have situations coherent with reality. Heteros tend to fetishize homosexual r...... reply
the way you're saying it seems like homosexuals can't write about straight relationships. i don't see a problem with it as long as they respect actual queer people reply
