im the same as you, i just label myself as bi-ace or pan-ace, im not sure hwat yours might be but tbh, i dont really use these labels, i mean you can just not use labels right? just be yourself, you are labeled as yourself cuz thats who you are
there are still aces that like porn but dont want to have sex and i have been in your place b4, confused...... reply
Cultural Appropriation? You must be kidding. If you're looking for that, then read some damn articles about it instead of some 7.3 rating yaoi smut and then start complaining why it isn't similar.
Okay, now you're telling us that we must only read the one respectable and that we're just fetishizing. No sht way sherlock. Ever read some shoujo like ...... reply
depends on your age. id say that people shouldnt smack the acearo label on themselves until theyre at least 18. some people just have slow acting libidos. reply
you are a result of the post 2016 internet lgbt+ media overrepresentation like so many others
in all seriousness, if you would date girls but you wouldnt take em in bed, youre probably biromantic heterosexual. reply
alrighty, somewhat unrelated, but here's my big pansexuality=bisexuality proof.
lets start off with the proof that the first modern coined usage of the term was in a forum a while back (maybe around 2010?) that claimed "unlike bi people, pansexuals love all genders, like transgender and nonbinary. we are attracted to personality. hearts not parts...... 1 reply
sigh i see this type of shit every day. Why should it matter what gender or sexuality someone is when it comes to fiction or freaking porn?? Gatekeeping media for something as stupid is that is never a good thing, it just sort of smells like entitlement to me? 'You can't like/consume this content because you're straight' if that's the case it has t...... reply
as a gay man, i agree with some aspects of this. i personally think its harmful and unneeded for the hets to write lgbt fiction simply because its not something theyre familiarized with. "write what you know", right? there's no need for straight people to write lgbt+ focused things when its not an issue they struggle with personally. furthermore, a...... 1 reply