Have been asked out by a bunch of men but men think with their dick 90% of the time so I'm pretty sure it wasn't genuine. I have three exes and all three asked me out first because I was scared of rejection.
I've only asked out one person in my life, had just entered highschool, had the biggest mind numbing stalkerish crush on a guy 10 years older...... reply
I'm sure most people in the fandom saw that one tiktok account (lily) where she posts the most craziest head canons about them . It's crazy how some are lowkey accurate and how some had my jaw drop to the ground like the Boston pie one.
I'd like to know which ones y'all found shocking but you couldn't agree more with and what other head canons y'all got that you haven't seen others say.
i have been asked out before but i usually let them ghost me, bc now i have an excuse to not text back . This one dude started texting me asking to hang out but i later found out he has a whole gf … Next dude told me that he liked me bc i wasn’t fake and didn’t wear makeup im like okay ? and he ghosted me and just bc i said i really like stat...... 2 reply
i have no qualms about being the one to ask someone out but it’s hella hard to catch feelings so I’ve only done it once when I was like 14: i got rejected
as for being asked out: (if we’re excluding randomly getting hit on)
I’ve had a female ex-friend of mine confess to me through several long paragraphs in my Instagram DMs (I MISS HER)
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nope. my ego just too high to ask a male (capslock that) for a date? NAWR— anw somehow many of them said i was hard to approach lol, so no one (males irl) ever ask me for a date anw single — kinda cry every few days, but hey im happy! i guess ? :'D reply
The last time someone decent asked me out was high school. He bought me my favorite chocolates and flowers, which i refused and replied “I need to think about it”, I then proceeded to run across the street without looking almost getting hit by a car. reply
when they exist or live a life solely for their partner, like not just in bl but in general. like it demonstrates such an imbalance of power and extreme codependency bc if their partner leaves them then their basically cooked.. like u dont have any hobbies, passion, jobs, friends, connections, relatives or family members in ur life and u only live ...... reply
huh. so how do i go about this.
one-dimensional characters that were just put in a trope blender and pulled out with zero depth, be it the seme or the uke or the anything, really
and actually? i hate the whole seme/uke thing, too, like don't make it obvious???? i'm reading bl because i want to get AWAY from the power difference usually found in het...... reply
ah...tbh our country is really conservative so there's that. there's also the fact that at school i was literally the daughter of a teacher lol so no one considered asking me out
i did, however ask out my ex (then best friend). Like, at that point, our whole school was asking us if we were gay and tbh yeah??? we sure as hell were???? so at some poi...... 2 reply