TL;DR : trial and error, self acceptance and research. also, meeting new people who ('s gender/sex) you might not have thought of sexually/romantically helps! sexuality is fluid and often confusing, but i hope this is useful in some way
• a lot (and i mean a lot) of trial and error. i've always kinda known i liked girls and boys, and that it wa...... reply
I had an experience that was very traumatizing to me, and it caused me to debate my sexuality so I thought about who I liked (male/female), how I felt about them and tried to imagine what it would be like to be with them, stuff like that and thought bout my past crushes and afterwards I came to the conclusion that I was straight. reply
well after realizing that my feelings for a friend were not the usual Straight feelings and having a mild crisis ab it, i came to the conclusion that im bi reply
So well I thought I was into guys but then when I tried having crushes on them it did not work. at All. It turned out horribly and I felt like I was forcing myself. But each time I got along with a girl I always imagined a future with them as a couple/married. At first I was confused and asked some of my gay friends what it meant they said I was a ...... reply
