I came to realize sometime around 21 that I am actually asexual, but throughout my high school years I struggled with that thought. I wanted a boyfriend for the sake of having one, not because I really feel the need to have one.
I would look at other girls and their interactions with the guys and would think "what are they doing that I'm not?" And...... 2 reply
Something I realized over time, no matter what you look like or what you think you look like you can have lovers. But I get it. I’ve struggled with body dysmorphia and acute shyness. I dealt with it in unhealthy ways->becoming extremely promiscuous (which is fine if you enjoy it, but it made me feel like crap) and drinking & doing drugs to deal w...... 1 reply
My 4 year friendship turned into a relationship to an extent that we were considering marriage... But we broke after 2 and 1/2 years... Well, the reason was that the person wanted changes in me, he wanted to change me into his religion (happens here) to get married, he restricted me from speaking to the persons he disliked, he even came to a stage ...... reply
Dude same... I just turned 19 and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. And while I'm happy and glad that my friends have found partners, I do sometimes feel pangs of longing to have the same thing you know... reply
Hi, look I'm 29 this year and I've been thinking the same as you right now... Why I never dated someone seriously? I hang out with some guys some times but none of them really taked about dating me ever. Sometimes I think if the problem it's me or what, and like you, once I was really insecure about myself and I can tell you that what you need is b...... reply
Don't worry, you'll find someone eventually. If you can work on being less shy, I really think it will help you in the future. It's hard, but babysteps work like a charm.
If you're less shy, you will meet more people and that's the way to get a boyfriend. (It still takes time, though.)
From a 21yo fellow who hasn't had a boyfriend yet either and i...... reply
21 and never had a boyfriend. I don't think I'm ugly so I assure you it has nothing to do with the looks. '^'
I've experienced some crushes when I was around 14, but it never lead to anything and since then, I have never really gotten an interest into someone even though I had a few dates in the last few years. I don't think I can say I've ever bee...... 1 reply
tbh,,,,,,, not having to constantly reassure the other person that you love them because they need it, not being called emotionally detached, nobody being jealous of you and your friends........... honestly ive only ever been in toxc reltionships dont mind me reply
I've been single for like...the day I was born, that's the truth. I saw my younger sisters having boyfriends before me, but I don't give a crap. I love the freedom, even I'm now at the age of an adult.
I choose not to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. People have a choice, and sometimes the choice will take a while to answer. If you want to have som...... reply
I'm 23 and also never really been in a relationship. I had one 'boyfriend' in high school for about 4 weeks, two of which I was out of the country for, we kissed once, it sucked, then broke up. He's now one of my best guy friends and basically the closest I've ever felt to loving someone. Periodically, whenever I'm drunk and lonely/horny, I'll thin...... reply
