Hmm well idk if someone will see this and give me an answer but I have NEVER dated or even kissed bc my parents were too strict but now I'm 17 and I.....I just don't know how to love man! Like how do u do it? Like loving someone bc now even if my brain says I like someone I only see it as that there personality is nice or there a nice guy and bc o...... reply
Honestly, The fact that u said u need at least 5 years to live together threw me off. If you can't commit to live together after 1 year or 2 years then just stop going in relationships unless you are a kid ofc an average young person can't possibly be comfortable to that yet, but If you are grown you should prolly live together.
As for her she may ...... reply
To be completely honest she's being incredibly unfair to you. I could understand not doing the things you wanna do if she really isn't interested in them but then to turn around and force you to do the things she wants is such a shitty thing to do. And the part where you told her that you would want to wait like five years and she just laughed and ...... 1 reply
Hmm it's really up to u man, on how u wanna tell her and if u wanna tell her but as in the other comments it's best to discuss it with her on how ur feeling and also ask her how she is feeling about this and does she have any problem in this relationship and if she opens up to u that's good! And try to discuss it while doing relaxing and just casua...... reply
..i feel for you, is a tricky one..
Based on what you are saying, it does seem that you are the one doing most of the work, and compromising in the relationship, which is not fair. It puts all the pressure, to make things work, on you.
She does not seem to do much to meet you half-way.
Is ok for couples to have different hobbies and stuff, but is n...... reply
If she's making you feel uncomfortable, and she's not compromising when you decide to do stuff and about the dog (this is a serious problem don't say otherwise), I'm sorry to say but you're not meant to be. If you've been with her for about 4 months this is enough to give you an idea about who she is (it is known that people usually can fake their ...... reply
I'll be very honest with you. There is no point in a relationship that stress you out or make you miserable in any sort of way.
Your best option is to have an open discussion with her. Tell her how you feel and what bother you. Don't tell her you are thinking of breaking off though because it will pressure her.
If she don't hear you out, don't care...... reply
Hi! It’s definitely true that the both of you are not on the same page and I totally understand how it feels to be treated unfairly, kind of like double standards, right? I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years and there’s been a lot of small bumps like that, but trust me, they definitely turn into bigger obstacles the more you pile them on t...... 1 reply
Honestly if you feel the relationship isn’t working out you should leave before it gets harder to move on. Some relationships are difficult at first but after speaking and compromising with each other it ends up working out. To me l don’t feel that she is taking your feelings into consideration - you do things that she enjoys but she won’t do...... 1 reply
