In 8th grade during a class I had an uncontrollable urge to kiss a girl who was my class fellow, although we never really talked. I got a bit scared that how come, I who thought liked boys suddenly wanted to kiss a girl, and so I searched what it meant and then I came across the term bisexual. That’s when I knew I liked both boys and girls. reply
Did anyone else tell people they were bi, when you were actually gay to sorta "lessen the blow?" I thought if I told people I was bi I would get less homophobia against me since I could be considered half-straight lol. reply
Focus on yourself and your goals first. Because if you don't know what you want in a relationship, and don't know what your boundaries are...well it can get tough!
Don't sacrifice your joy for another person, they should make u feel good too!
(read this online) reply
I never had a phase where I needed to sit down with myself and go "hey maybe I'm not straight", cause I knew. I didn't have words to put on it, but I goddamn knew I was a raging panromantic. It was always a question about how open I was about it-- I don't lie outright, I'm just more or less vague about it. reply
Long story short:
Sissy dearest made me read good ol' yaoi. Had a panic attack, followed by a mental breakdown. And now years later and I'm here fucking guys. Simple, ain't it? reply
Well, I always knew I liked boys. I couldn't deny it nor did I try.
But because I was homophobic I tried throughout my teenage years to convince myself that I'm bisexual (I'm 22 btw). It seemed worse to be gay than bi, therefore I thought I had to like girls as well in order to 'fix' things. So I even dated a girl for a little while and after that...... reply
took me to realize my gay awakening in ninth grade. at some point I thought I was aro bc I was never interested in anyone, surprise surprise I’m just dense as hell (legit TOOK ME TWO YEARS TO REALIZE I HAD A CRUSH). anyways I wasn’t really homophobic since my parents aren’t really conservative reply
When I got into highschool, I met up with my best friend during my elementary education (that was then, we kinda fell out) and I found out that she was going out with another girl, who was also the lover of my other friend. My bestfriend thought that her 'lover' broke up with my other friend so she agreed to be in a relationship with her. I kinda s...... reply
