here's a 30 yo this year.
my one and only advice: Chose whatever you want to do and take full responsibility of it, don't do things half-assed, finish what you started. reply
That love is just a temporary feeling to preserve humanity as a species. That humanity as a species is a disturbance to other species (including plants). That we are slowly pushing our species closer to extinction by ignoring those two statement. Whenever I try to think of another way of thinking, it's always back to those two. reply
Just two things:
That everyone goes through life at a different pace, and if you're not accomplishing the same things other people are at the same age are (getting a job, getting married, finishing college, etc.) It's okay. You're definitely not alone in that. That even goes for creating things, if you're a writer or artist, you have a whole lifeti...... 1 reply
I know I am going to be hated for this answer but I think I won't love a disabled person. I am lacking of empathy so I am just gonna make them suffer by acting like it is their responsibility even if I do know that it's not the case. I may seem harsh but it's my opinion right now. It might change in the future... reply
'Treat others the way you want to be treated.' Also a life rule that I keep near my heart and always abide to. So many people including some very close ones in my life are so good at looking, talking and responding to people in a negative way. But if every person does the same thing to others, it becomes a cycle.
Respect is to be earned, not given...... reply
That no matter how much i struggle, i shouldn't push for my friends or family to constantly be there for me.
They don't always know what to do or say, and hearing me say all these things could be quite damaging to both them and me, because i end up looking for advice and comforting words, and they end up giving me ones i don't want.
I've only re...... reply
My advice is 1: never stay in a toxic relationship. Abusers don't change and it always gets worse. This goes for mental, physical, or sexual abuse. At the first red flag, run and never look back. This applies to men as well as women. 2: Make the time and effort to do the things you want to do. You never know when something can happen, accident/illn...... reply
Definitely. Not only because of how much you mature, but it can also be because of your hardships, the people around you, the place you are, and many other things. I just think that people most often don't notice, and that most of the time they change very subtly. reply
