If a guy (or girl) really, truly wants to be with you they'll find a way to make it happen. None of those ghosting, orbiting types. Those people make like you but they don't like you enough to change or commit to you in a meaningful way. reply
30 here (old lady, I know.)
Here are a few key ideals I wish I had followed a lot earlier:
- it's okay to like what you like. Do your friends think its dorky or lame? Who cares, if you like it, own it.
- if the people around you don't accept you or your interests, find a new circle. Don't be afraid to branch out and search for people with common i...... 4 reply
If you really enjoy what you are doing now i would stick with that. Its so many peoples dream to travel the world doing what they love or even just like. I remember when I had to choose where to go career wise and I was reminded that nothing is set in stone and you are allowed to change your mind.
Seems to me that you should do what you are doing ...... 2 reply
Hey there. So I've been thinking about what to do in the future, that whole what is the job you want to do until you die pressure you get since who knows when. Now, I seem to find myself at a crossroad. I already finished my Bachelor's degree but this career path requires me to get my Masters (a least), but then I got stressed out and ran away to teach overseas (now enjoying life in Korea).
Thinking about my next steps, I'm just not sure if I should go back and finish what I started, or go back and get a different degree and change my career path, or just keep floating around the world teaching English wherever the wind blows me.
So I'm just looking to hear from other people who've also been uncertain about their future careers and what they've done about it.
Thank you for taking the time to read and/or respond!
23 here. Make mistakes. Learn. Grow. Be Kind. And be kind to yourself. Life is such a gift. Have fun while you are young.
Sometimes bad things happen but everything with time usually gets better. Don't ever give up! 1 reply
Ha Ha Ha... This is a funny question... xD
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Hmmm... let me see... I've had a couple of times where I decided(?) to... do 'it'. That is... dying. And the months before the "deadline", actually feels... fricking painful. xD (I'm trying to laugh it off dude as if it'd no...... 1 reply
Ideally I'd go out like a cat, run off and hide somewhere until I died.
If I knew I was dying in 3 months, I'd likely be ill and I wouldn't have the energy to go out with a bang. Instead, I'd make peace with everyone I wronged. I'd tell my loved ones how much they meant to me and say our goodbyes. I'd tie up loose ends. I'd try arrange as muc...... reply
Quit my job, leave the country, and go somewhere where no one can find me. I've always wanted to run away from my problems, be irresponsible, and selfish like that but I never do it because I'm the complete opposite and that doesn't solve anything. But if I'm dying, who cares anymore? reply
Live your life with no boundaries. Never isolate yourself hoping that one day someone will notice you. Encourage yourself to interact with everyone and enjoy every passing moment, so that you never grow up and find yourself alone with no one to turn to, regretting the youthful days that you've wasted. Never restrain yourself because of anyone, or f...... 2 reply
I live big no joke I'd have a 3 some.I go to parties no more schools.I go drinking & hope I don't find love on the way.If I do I will fell sad to leave them behind.Have laugh,joy,smile and I won't be sad for a day cause if I it well be a waste.I make sure to say my goodbye to the people I love. reply
