I feel like people, younger people in general, need to experience it on their own and learn their own lessons. Love can be complicated, confusing. It can literally make you sick. And sometimes, even though you feel like you love someone, you could totally be misreading EVERYTHING. But you have to learn it all by yourself. Because, let's be honest, ...... 1 reply
30 here. I would like to say something very cliche but still very important. Don't leap before looking and dude, omg...pay all your bills...lol and finally just know even at times where you feel like a worthless piece of shit, you aren't. You might feel out of place everywhere but the best thing you can do when feeling lost is to stay true to yours...... reply
With age, you realize that you're just moldy cheese. You might be a delicacy to some and to others, you're absolutely repulsive. And hey...that's OKAY.
Also...time doesn't exist and cheetos+cupcakes=procrastination. But who cares that all your childhood friends are traveling the world while you scrub toilets? In another dimension, you're the moth...... reply
I, like others here, also think that you should do what you feel is best. A family for some looks different for others too. Some people are extremely fulfilled with good friends, pets, interests that don't involve other people and having a "family" in the standard sense (married, kids) would be a total nightmare. I never planned on getting married...... reply
I don't know if I could 'cause I won't really consider a disabled person as a love interest, but more as a friend. If I happen to develop feelings for that person, though, then so be it.
If my loved one becomes disabled, I would probably try and accommodate myself to a new lifestyle before considering a break up. reply
DONT. JUST DONT. I was a young teenager who rushed at loving once. since i only fell inlove with only one person(hes still my crush even if he told my friend im friendzone) and love hurts. It drives you mad, happy, sad and if you're stupid enough you'd try to kill yourself. I reached that point 1 reply
A lot of people here wrote that they are scared of the responsibility of taking care of a disabled person, and I'd like to address that topic: don't think you have to act like a nurse/caretaker or whatever. Of course it depends on what kinda disability someone has, but most people manage just fine without any help of other people and in a relations...... 2 reply
Quite a difficult question, to assess something you have not experienced. As far as I know myself I could fall in love with someone who is disabled. If he only has a physically handicapped why not. someone in a wheelchair for example is not a pathetic person but he / she is no different from someone who can walk normally. and take care of him / he...... reply
If I’m going to be completely honest then I’d say that I’m leaning more towards no, but at the same time I can’t fully say no.. or yes at that. So it’s more of a “it depends on” kinda thing. Basically, it depends on what kind of disability it is, how much it will affect the daily life and how much responsibility I will have to take.
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