I'm a bi girl.
"How did you come out?" Well, I never did... not to my family at least.
I mean, I came out to a very close friend of mine years ago, when I first noticed I was actually gay, and he was very supportive, which made me really happy. Then, because of a mistake I made, my other close friend found out. I was very nervous and I hadn't told ...... reply
Hey! Bisexual girl here ~ ive been into yaoi for about 4 years now and for me its just a way for me to visualize my love for romance and sexual desires. I identify a lot with many characters and yaoi/shounen ai stories in general are really amazing.i feel that "straight" romance mangas are a bit dull and always the same with the girl falling in lov...... reply
I'm a bi girl, and I've always kind of known but also not really.
So from the start I've always liked both guys and girls, ever since I was little. But I didn't really understand. I mean, I knew what being gay was, but I always considered myself straight (HAHAHAHA what)
I'm very socially awkward and had a lonely childhood, so whenever I looked at g...... reply
Well, I'm a bisexual girl, and I like it both because of the stories and because I can identify with the characters. I've liked BL (and GL) for about 6 years now, and when I first had contact with it, I liked it mostly because of the romance aspect - I'm a pretty romantic person, lol. The BLs I started with had a similar effect on me as shoujo mang...... 2 reply
First time (coming out as 'gay', 16, now I know I'm gay for all genders): Friend-wise, said that guys kissing is hotter than straight people kissing. Family-wise, emailed my parents and let them tell extended family.
Second time (coming out as asexual, ~18): friend-wise just mentioned it many times. Family-wise, my brother told my dad and I said '...... reply
Amab bigender+agender, gay for all genders, autochorissexual.
Personally I love bl + gl, though I'm picky about bl because most of it is terrible. Even though I love bl, I think it's pretty harmful because of its fanbase. It misrepresents the queer community and normalizes noncon, and this makes the straight women who read it think that that's ho...... 2 reply
i realized i was bi in 8th grade. i remember my best friend leaning her head on my shoulder during lunch one day, and then something in me just kind of clicked. it was really hard for me. looking back on it now, i think i liked girls before then, but i was just repressing it. internalized homophobia really screws you up. in any case, like i said, f...... 2 reply
bi girl here. i've been out since 8th grade, when i came out to my mom. that's when i figured out i liked girls, but i'm pretty sure i'd been suppressing it for longer than that. i couldn't say it out loud bc i was crying so hard so i wrote it on a post it note. i don't remember how i came out to my dad but it was pretty soon after. they were both ...... reply
(Bi) Never really had a big coming out moment since I've never felt the need to do so. With my sisters it has always been a casual speculation conversation, and they like girls as well anyways. Same with one of my friends, I was just casually speculating with her and she didn't bat an eyelid. With my mom it happened when we were talking about my si...... 1 reply
