i personally am not interested in BL. being a cis lesbian, i would not relate to yaoi mangas. another reason why im not intrested in BL is because of the many problematic, cringey, and annoying fujoshis that ruined it for me. there are fujoshis that read BL but are homophobic irl. there are many readers of yaoi (the majority being straight girls) t...... reply
asking them about their sex positions is a big no. would you ask a straight person if theyre a top or bottom?? many of yaoi and yuri mangas are in fact unrealistic and fetishize queer individuals, since they are written by straight people for straight people. its not logical to become educated about the lgbt community by reading mangas. you should ...... reply
I had a crush on the head cheerleader in middle school and halfway through high school..when I finally figured out how much I loved her she already had me wrapped around her finger that was when I accepted it. we dated for 4 years and then she died in a car accident in 2003 after that I never dated another girl again.. I miss her like crazy and st...... reply
my first coming out was at 5 (i just told my mom at that time) , but the "official" one, the one that made me accept myself was around 15, i told my mom for the second time i had a girl i liked. She accepted it pretty nicely and comforted me when i got rejected... it seemed weird to me when i was young because i come from a very homophobic country...... reply
If you don't talk about sex with you friends in general, of course she would be mad that you suddenly ask.
Yes, most yuri/yaoi are writting for heterosexual people and are not realistic.
But I do not think it is wrong to be curious, in fact I think it's better than wanting to know nothing.
Of course, gay or not, they're doing sex. Just like ever...... reply
I'm lesbian and i like it a lot! I think that some are just fluffy stories really shoujo-like but with a same sex couple, some show the issue of not being accepted, coming out, being bullied, being toyed with, being harshly rejected because of your feelings,loving a person who'll never love back... like, all the bad moments we have to go through as...... reply
Nope, it does not affect my identity in any way but it's brutal that reality does not accept LGBT like in BL and other, alike manga( atleast here （￣へ￣）). I enjoy reading BL as a hobby and makes me think just maybe I will be accepted by my loved ones and have my life story. reply
I tried to read BL and in general, I'm just not interested at all. The best BL was honestly very good, with a real story etc but I didn't got obsessed with it like I do with yuri.
But I have to admit I kind of hate BL because of how unrealistic it is and how fujoshis and fudanshis get too crazy about it, shipping people irl and stuff. I think that ...... 1 reply
I always liked girls and would have probably considered myself a lesbian from a young age except for two things:
A. I had a girlfriend who outed me in Jr. High, she went to school in a different city and thought it would be sweet to surprise me by riding the bus to meet me at school. It was sweet but she decided to tackle me and sit on me while ki...... 2 reply
