Mind if I assume that you have already read finder series(don't mind me,I assume too many things these days)
Then boku no danna sama could be a good ongoing BL
Also painter of the night.
Also I don't know what type of BL you like to read but I'm recommending you what I would consider to be good,sorry if I may be biased.
I forgot- omae no tame ni ...... 2 reply
Here U Are, Love Shuffle, Make Me Bark, Killing Stalking (jk), Love Is an Illusion, The Titian's Bride, and Hyperventilation. These are good. ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ 1 reply
I've done both ways, broke my hymen masturbating when I was 15 and when I was on birth control, Nuvaring, I developed a cervical ulcer that would bleed with rough masturbation and sex. I wouldn't say it's normal or common but it can happen and you'll be okay. :) If you're ever really worried about it don't be afraid to talk to your doctor about it!...... reply
I guess it isn't abnormal, but if it bleeds, you might be a little bit too rough on your body.
The hymen is pretty elastic so you need to take time to prep it well by adding one finger at the time.
A hymen stretched well enough won't bleed. (The myth that it will bleed for every girl while loosing virginity comes from the fact that a lot of peopl...... 1 reply
I am certainly not an expert on this topic, but I hope this helps.
Take this time to learn and care more about yourself. Obtain new hobbies, recover old ones. Connect with family and friends. If you need support, seek it. You're in a delicate condition, so don't stress yourself by thinking about it too much. Yes, you'll still think of it no m...... reply
So, I got dumped & friendzoned for the second time in my life, but firs after quite long relationship (year and three months to be exact). Any ways to get over it in a healthy way? No revenges, no jelaousy stunts, just clearing out my mind and sorting my life out again.
Totally normal. People get off to things they wouldn’t want to experience themselves, such as rape. You did not mess up, it’s perfectly normal. Just get used to it. reply