i just want the romantic part and the plot. idc if it's yaoi or shounen ai. it can even be hetero. but for some reason i've noticed that authors feel more comfortable taking the disturbing issues one step further solely because it's BL
and that's my kinda jam 2 reply
sigh… so many prudes here… i feel betrayed. how dare people touch themselves to porn…???!
but seriously, i’m more concerned on how yall never get turned on by smut. i get feral when i read about a sub buff man getting dominated by a girl
wait tho i don’t agree if they ONLY ever read bl to do that, like now that’s fetish af 3 reply
I realized I liked my best friend when she was telling me about her friendship break up and at that time I was just holding my urge to kiss her while she was in tears
And how I felt so sad and pathetic when she told me about her boyfriend on my birthday
I do want to cut ties with her as she I am still unable to move on from her and find someone ...... reply
One day in my early 20s I just realized how little I care about having sex. Like, I'd watch sex and jerk off to people having sex, obsess over BL and GL pairings etc, but I just did not care to do it myself. 0 fantasies about me with others. Instead I cared about being with friends and family, maybe living with someone I like long-term.
That's whe...... reply
This is how I find out most people dont masturbate, I thought it was a universal experience...well im a man and I do get off on yaoi sometimes, I thought it was the same for women? Guess not. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ reply
Ok now I'm seeing someone throw the word "fetishization" again without taking any nuance into account.
Yeah, I masturbate to yaoi (I read for both porn and plot) and NO, that does not mean I fetishize real gay men or real gay relationships. Those are two completely different things. I read fictional porn because it's... FICTIONAL PORN!! That is ...... 6 reply