can't answer about sex between male bodies but anal sex in general sure thing.
So first of all, no, there is no "door to be opened" in a biological sort of way. Apart from that I guess... shit varies and is complicated. Hmmm. Maybe I shouldn't use the word "shit" like this...
It varies accordingly to a person's butthole, how nervous they are (mea...... reply
I read the other posts. And MAN! I was like aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I m in same dilemma. I have a friend (ofc same sex) for like 10 years. Due to my personality, I always have truth issue and she was my first true friend. I also that I m also her first true friend too. But over the years I came to realise that "if I can" I really want to sp...... 2 reply
I was reading my favorite danmei(BL chinese novel) and the main couple finally had their first time having sex. Now the people in the comments section : one was arguing that the seme should've stopped when the uke was crying (it was very sweet fluffy danmei), on the other hand they were saying that maybe the uke was crying out of pleasure and just cursed out the seme's stamina...
Now, i want to know, is it really painful no matter what you do the first time (In gay sex)? Because I know for sure that women feel painful with their first time ( pleasure comes in the middle) bc the hymen breaks.. Or is true that with proper lubrication and patience, the first time won't hurt? Enlighten me please!
I think everyone is innately something (whether it be straight, bi, gay, asexual, et al), but that doesn’t mean that at some point in life you may find yourself attracted to someone who does not fit into your innate preference. reply
Imo love and sexuality is fluid, it's not a one and done thing, it can be for some people, but not for all. There could be times where you're attracted to someone of a specific identity but never attracted to someone like that again or stuff like that, but it doesn't have to. I think it's fine to experiment as long as all parties are consenting and...... 1 reply
One day my wife saw me sitting in a chair weird and started crying. I told her it's not what she thinks but accidentally did finger guns and now she took the kids and left.
It's so sad that she believed those stereotypes, we were so happy together. Even my boyfriend agreed. :'(
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Just because y'all are weird sometimes, yes this is a shitpost...... 2 reply
There's nothing wrong with that, love. As a a member of the LGBTQ+ community I think it's great that you were open to the idea of experimenting with your sexuality. Your original post rubbed me wrong but the follow up cleared it up for me. Just so you know, the fact that you were able to be aroused sexually by another woman might signify that you a...... 1 reply
