is it normal? (cw)

is it normal to get punched by your older brother so that you can used to it?

ik it probably is. stupid question. i just want validity at this point cause my perspectives are fucked up and i think everything is just normal now. my fam usully laughs at me when i tell them things that happens to me and that includes losing friends and getting sexually harassed by a stranger, laughing as if im such a joke for overreacting. so really, now idrk what's wrong or right. i dont want to ask anyone close to me. i just need a yes or no so i can be at ease. validity whore and all (づ￣ ³￣)づ

i'm a girl btw, and he does it a lot everytime he's drunk.