First time

This is a message to my girls and guys, wether you're queer or not, YOUR FIRST ISN'T SUPPOSED TO HURT. If it does, you need to tell your partner. You're not only doing this for him/her/them. Like you're not having sex to only please him girllllll. Like S L A Y them with that gorrila grip coochieeeeeee. OK but frl we need to stop telling girls/bottoms that first times are supposed to be painful. It makes people think that it's normal and will end up getting hurt. But yehhhhhhh slay my leige (づ￣ ³￣)づ