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Should I be ashamed?
Well you see, I'm pretty open about my kinks and fetishes and stuff with some of my close friends but this one time I told one of my friends and she told me that "I should be ashamed of them, and never talk about them. I should NEVER ask a man to do things like that" Now your thinking "Bms or s and m" But it was just teasing, Foreplay, stuff like that. Should I be ashamed? If you SO asked you to do that, would you?
I don't think you should be ashamed, but know when the right time is. Like on your first date or first time being intimate with a person, don't suddenly tell them that you're into heavy S&M or that you enjoy yellow showers or something. Tell they eventually, maybe start out more mild and then ease into the more kinky stuff. Everyone has their own t...... reply
Well you don't have to be ashamed if you're not. Just don't talk to her about it because clearly she hates hearing about it hahahhaha. Believe me I have wayyy worse kįnks than you and internet people shame me for it. But I know I don't have to be ashamed bc I don't act on it irl and I don't even RP with real people just AI bots hahaha. Likes it's ...... 2 reply
To be honest your friend sounds prudish. What you want is a very important aspect of sex. and I'm going to tell you right now that any guy that cares about satisfying his woman will not only comply but will already do so without you asking. Sex is very different for women and men. For women, it's all about the build up so foreplay is very important...... reply
It's good to be open about sexuality, kinks and fetishes, but you have to learn how to read the other person so you can know when to stop. If your friend looks bored or if she tells you not to talk about it anymore, it's time to stop telling her that stuff, but you can tell everyone else if you want.
Also, if you really want to try out some stuff, ...... 1 reply
Oh goodness no! You should never be ashamed of who you are. Embrace it, enjoy your difference in whatever and be proud. There are going to be people who may not understand and you will have to prepare for those types of responses. But no matter how prepared you are, negative comments hurt even more so from those close to you. Keep your chin up ...... reply
I also have some friends who are super judgemental with things like that, I also have friends (married friends) who still feel the need to whisper rude words in conversation lol. One male friend actually got quite upset when we were light-heartedly once, asking each other about what material(s) we use to er, that thing….eheh…..so it really depe...... reply
Of course you shouldn't be ashamed. As long as whatever you for remains between you and your partner and they agree with it, you shouldn't have to be ashamed.
BUT if your friend doesn't like hearing about that kinda stuff, don't talk about it in front of her. She may be feeling uncomfortable, so it's important to respect her as well. Instead, if yo...... 2 reply
You defently shouldn't be ashamed of such matter. These things called kinks, they're just tastes in relationships. There's nothing wrong with wanting to do something different every once in a while, right?
It's nice to share personal tastes with friends, and of course there will be differences, but in the end its you and your lover.
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