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Top AND Bottom IRL
I recently saw a post on Facebook about a guy saying he wants to be friends with the people in a Fujoshi/Fudanshi community group (Implying he's not straight) and he posted pics of his self. One gay guy(I describe him as transverstite) commented if he was a top or not.
Realistically speaking, do you think it's rude to assume someone that way especially IRL situations?
As for me, it kinda annoyed the heck out of me since he's asking whether he tops or not which is honestly a kind of fetishization for me(⊙…⊙ )
On the internet, people often overstep boundaries. That person is probably just being a typical internet troll and/or just jokingly implying that they dont wanna waste their time socializing if the other person is bottom. Well, that may sound weird to some people but this kind of attitude is common within the gay community (in a sexual context) but...... reply