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Idk man
First time writing about this, but gen dont know where to begin on saying this. I am female n 16 n I'm straight?
Though, in often times I'd fantasised about women, doing it with them, n having a short-term relationship with them, though doesn't reach to the point that I'd wanna marry them. I know it may sound easy js reading it from me like "ouh ur js fucking bisexual, no need to complicate things." But that's the problem, its simple yet I'm overcomplicating things. I know its just that simple to say if u like women, their bodies, etc. N men then ur bi. But I've never actually liked someone with the same gender? Though, I can say for sure I've taken interest in a lot of female figures.
N with men? There r atleast 3 guys I've truly liked in different times but nothing to it js there, but more than liking men it's more of wanting to be a man? Not like a trans way but to be born as one (idk y its turning to gender but please bear with me) n lately everything from game characters n name it's all turning to relations like I would pick a boy character over a girl in countless game like I tried picking a girl n I js don't like it. Up even to fucking male users I'd try and catfish as a guy n i just dont fucking get y I'm like that.
Theres no need to rush into a label, you like who you like. You don't need to identify with any sort of gender or sexuality, youll figure it out as you go. Forcing yourself to pick a label only confuses you more and makes the exploration process harder, so generally just don't think too much about who you like or what you like, as you get older it ...... reply
“You’re not weird at all, this stuff is actually pretty common and just not talked about much. A lot of people have fantasies that don’t line up perfectly with who they like in real life, and that doesn’t automatically mean anything about labels. Wanting to be a guy sometimes can also just be gender envy, which a lot of girls experience, es...... reply
When I was your age, I think like that too. As a tomboy, I’m satisfied with my female body. I used to say “but I have a boy soul.” When I watch ben 10, I want to be him lol. But 10 years later, I changed. I am still somewhat of a tomboy, but now I alsoI love dress and cute things. What you are feeling rn is just a journey of discovering yours...... reply
Warning LOOONG answer
Puberty is an insane time and being older now I can tell you it'll def settle as you age and learn more about yourself. I will tell you, your experience as a teenage girl is NOT crazy or unique (good thing) because I literally thought and did exactly what you're doing rn. From liking girls but not forseeing relationships, rig...... reply
Hey there, I've seen this a while ago, but I never had the time to drop my thoughts/opinions on all this.
I'm straight. Like, I really love guys and dicks(a bit oversimplified)
But, I had attachments (some of you call it "crush") to a very good number of girls my age. I went to a girl's high school, and it was pretty normal to have crushes on our...... 1 reply
So, I was thinking about just reading this but since it got answered today too, and I thought it would be a bit cathartic to me so I gonna talk a little bit 'bout my situation.
Like you I've fantasized about men and woman, being in a relationship with them and everything else except marriage since I don't have a great opinion 'bout it. And like you...... reply
