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Top AND Bottom IRL
I recently saw a post on Facebook about a guy saying he wants to be friends with the people in a Fujoshi/Fudanshi community group (Implying he's not straight) and he posted pics of his self. One gay guy(I describe him as transverstite) commented if he was a top or not.
Realistically speaking, do you think it's rude to assume someone that way especially IRL situations?
As for me, it kinda annoyed the heck out of me since he's asking whether he tops or not which is honestly a kind of fetishization for me(⊙…⊙ )
That's a personal question, point blank. There are gay guys that do not openly discuss that with other gay guys the same way hets don't casually talk about sexual positions in conversation. For me to even have the need to put it into a different perspective for people to understand, is sad af to me. If two people know one another and it's mutual to...... reply
