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PSA #4: Mlm issues and why you don't have a say in them
As much as y'all love to say that men don't get a say on women's issues, or that white people don't get a say on poc's issues (both of which are true), y'all, at least on here, do that exact thing to mlm people.
Non-mlm people, *including lgbt+ women*, do *not* and will *never* have a say in what constitutes as fetishizing mlm people, or a say in what does or doesn't affect us and how. You do not get to have a seat at the table for things that pertain to a group of people you aren't even a part of.
And yes, that extends to discourse on and around yaoi/bl.
Eh. Obviously non-mlm do not get to decide what's fetishization and what isn't, but they're certainly allowed an opinion. This also applies to men talking about women's issues, you can always have an opinion on it and also voice and be correct about it, BUT you must always listen to the actual people that are affected. I'm not a guy and I try to av...... reply
