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PSA #4: Mlm issues and why you don't have a say in them
As much as y'all love to say that men don't get a say on women's issues, or that white people don't get a say on poc's issues (both of which are true), y'all, at least on here, do that exact thing to mlm people.
Non-mlm people, *including lgbt+ women*, do *not* and will *never* have a say in what constitutes as fetishizing mlm people, or a say in what does or doesn't affect us and how. You do not get to have a seat at the table for things that pertain to a group of people you aren't even a part of.
And yes, that extends to discourse on and around yaoi/bl.
I should be cleaning my dog's shit atm but here I am giving my two cents. I have my own list of dos and don'ts when it comes to mlm and wlw but the bottom-line is, if you're not mlm and still feel the to justify certain types of behaviors especially when you don't do the same to relationships of other genders, that's where you cross the line.
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